Artificial Intelligence for sex – some are not too keen

A very interesting article on BBC about the user of artificial intelligence enhanced sex toys:
A campaign has been launched calling for a ban on the development of robots that can be used for sex.

Such a use of the technology is unnecessary and undesirable, said campaign leader Dr Kathleen Richardson.

Sex dolls already on the market are becoming more sophisticated and some are now hoping to build artificial intelligence into their products.

Those working in the field say that there is a need for such robots.

Dr Richardson, a robot ethicist at De Montfort University in Leicester, wants to raise awareness of the issue and persuade those developing sex robots to rethink how their technology is used.

“Sex robots seem to be a growing focus in the robotics industry and the models that they draw on – how they will look, what roles they would play – are very disturbing indeed,” she told the BBC.

She believes that they reinforce traditional stereotypes of women and the view that a relationship need be nothing more than physical.

“We think that the creation of such robots will contribute to detrimental relationships between men and women, adults and children, men and men and women and women,” she said.

read the full story here:

Harmful Sex Toys That Could Send You To The Emergency Room

There’s a new and improved revolution of sexual satisfaction for those who are not satisfied with the regular sex and want to try something new. That’s when the sex toys come into the scenario. They are available in all shapes and sizes and they seem to be quite pleasurable and very popular. It is even rumored that they give far more maximum satisfaction than the regular sex.

Sex toys has its pros, but what about the cons?

Most sexual injuries are believed to be caused by this sex toys. According to the School On Public Health’s Survey on Emergency Medical Assistance, the number of people who needed quick medical assistance due to physical injuries were mostly by individuals experimenting with sex toys.

Most of the causes of such injuries, are when they are used the wrong way especially sensitive areas like the anus. The human rectal canal is not designed to accommodate assorted alien objects moving through with diversely and uncontrolled. For those who still intend using sex toys, proper instructions should be followed to avoid injuries. Ignoring vital instructions could be dangerous to the health.

All sex toys are potentially dangerous when the instructions are not properly adhered to, but the most controversial and most used sex toy usually cause the most injuries when individuals push the use of such toys to the extreme. Sex Toys that cause the most injuries are;


vibratorVibrators could be injurious when used wrongly especially when used on such sensitive areas such as the anus. Vibrators are the most popular sex toys but when it slips into the rectum, it could become a real problem. They can also become problematic when overheated while being used over a long period of time.



dildoDildos  cause far lesser injuries but if used on the wrong part of the body , it could be injurious. The rectum usually fall victim to injuries caused by dildos more than the vaginal insertion. When an individual constantly uses the dildo on the rectum. Piles and other forms of complications like anal fissures could occur.


• The Butt Plugs

butt_plugThey are also designed to be inserted into the anus, but one wrong move could also be injurious. They are usually flagged at the end to prevent the device from being lost in the anus.

•Ben Wa Balls

ben_ya_ballsThese balls improve vaginal sexual pleasure in women. They are inserted in the vagina and then the hips are rocked slowly to stimulate pleasure. The hips should be rocked slightly and not rapidly and always use a lubricant to prevent rough friction that could cause injuries. Failure to follow this instruction, could be injurious to the user.



•Cock Rings.

cock_ringIt works by fitting the ring into the penis. It pleasures both the man and the woman at the same time, but it can be injurious if care is not taken and instructions are not abided by. People who are rough while having sex should not use cock rings.

•Bondage Fantasy Toys

Fifty Shades of ConsumptionThey come in different assorted tools depending on each individuals fetish like cuffs, straps, whip, and also blind folds. The tool that could cause potential injury is the whip. So care should be taken not to go extreme with the whip so as not to cause injuries while deep in the sexual frenzy.

•Extreme Ass Spreader

extreme-ass-spreaderJust like the name implies. That wider you spread that ass, would push that ass to its breaking point and cause an injury that could be very serious and next to irreversible, so follow instructions to enjoy maximum sexual experience.
Never ignore instructions. This is very important when using a sex toy. Ignoring would always prove to be dangerous. Don’t forget to use plenty of lubricant when undergoing that anal sexual quest or what ever type of sexual penetration. Most instructions basically advice the use of reasonable quantity of lubricant when the sex toy is for insertion and vibratory purpose to prevent friction and lesions.

Toys that are quite complex are not for beginners. Never use a complex sex toy when you have no previous experience about the basic sex toys.

Mistakes men make relating to sex-Final part

mistakes men make relating to sexSome women really enjoy giving a blow job, other do it just to please their partner. If she doesn’t want to give you one, don’t pressure her or force her, or emotionally black mail her. If she offers to give you one, appreciate it and don’t push your luck.

1. You try to force her head down there

You started the foreplay and while she’s kissing you on your mouth, neck, chest and stomach, your hand is on her head, trying to push her down there. It’s not quite a turn on to be forced to do something. If you see that she resist against your shy push, don’t insist because it’s not that she didn’t get the hint, it’s just that she doesn’t want to give you a blow job. You should try understanding where she stands. So don’t insist because even if she does give it to you, it won’t be because she wanted to. If she agrees to do it, don’t force your penis in her throat if she is not ready or doesn’t like it. Chocking her is not really a way of making her feel good.

2. You hold her hands or her head while she is down there

It might turn you on to be in total control but don’t hold her head while she gives you a blow job. Or, you can hold it as long as you don’t try to control her moves. There are sex toys for that purpose and you can move them as you wish, but your partner isn’t one. Let her be in control of what she is doing and also, don’t hold her hands. In this case, it’s not romantic at all and she might not enjoy pleasuring you if she feels constrained in any way. Of course, if you like this stuff, then talk it over before having sex and see if she enjoys it too.

3. You come in her mouth without asking

This is rude and in some cases even disrespectful. Always ask before you come in her mouth. Don’t make up lame excuses like you didn’t have the time to tell her or you didn’t know you were about to come. Some women don’t enjoy having your sperm in their mouth and she won’t enjoy the sex afterwards.

Make sure you have a good finish for both of you

The finish is as important as the sex and the prelude. Both of you need to be satisfied and sometimes it’s not all about coming.

1. You stop before she had her climax and you don’t make up for it

A woman needs to know you care about her pleasure as well, so give your best not to come before she had her share. If you do, don’t roll over and fall asleep. You can continue giving pleasure even after you came and especially if she is still aroused. Leaving her unfinished when she almost came can be frustrating. Could you handle that every time? Imagine you stopping before you ejaculate and then letting the pleasure die in a slow way. Do something about it!

2. You don’t control your ejaculation

Don’t excuse yourself for not being able to control your ejaculation. If you try and practice, you can do it, so you just have to give a damn! No matter what your partner does to you or how she moves, you are the one who can best control your ejaculation – don’t blame it on her. If you ejaculate, make sure you don’t make an unwanted mess. Control yourself not to come on her face or her body is she doesn’t want you to. And if you make a mess, offer to help with the cleaning no matter where it is.

3. You shout in her ears while you come

You are embracing each other as you are about to come and you start making loud sounds. If you are screaming next to her ear you not only risk of making her def (just kidding), but it also distracts her attention from the pleasure. So, if you scream in her ear, she might loose all the accumulated pleasure and not be able to come. The fun is ruined and you were the only one who had fun.

4. You mark your territory

No, not similar to a lion! But you leave her with love marks that she might be embarrassed about the next day. No mature woman goes to work bragging with ‘Look what my wild partner did to me last night’ – only in your fantasies, perhaps. So don’t leave her with marks, especially if they can’t be hidden. You are not a teenager who needs to show himself and to other people that he did actually get some.

5. You don’t bond after having sex

The best bonding that take place between couples is the one that happens after sex. Hug your partner for a few minutes and let the cigarette or the shower wait for a bit. It is proven that certain hormones are released when two people hug after sex and they are the ones making both of you feel comfortable and secure. I think this is quite important so do something about it.

Women like the journey, not only the outcome. Do this often and not once or occasionally, for her birthday or for Christmas. Respect your partner even during sex and make your best to ensure that both of you get what you want out of sex.

Sex toys and a helpful neighbor

Today I went to see my friend… well, we’re not quite friends but he’s the closest I got to one. He works in a Sex Shop near to my place, and he’s originally from Slovenia, so we get along very well. I know what you are thinking, but I haven’t fucked him… he’s not into women. I enjoy having small talks with him, and the fact that he always lets me try the new toys before buying them. So I picked up a few and went home. I was exhausted from work, just like in the Beatles’ song, except I don’t have anyone to come home to (not that I’m complaining).

As I got inside the building, I rushed to catch the elevator… there were a few people in there, but I couldn’t wait to try the toys. I didn’t even notice that the handsome neighbor was in there with his family. He was staring at me. I felt awkward, but I liked it. Don’t know why. When the elevator reached their floor, his wife had to call his name to make him get of… it was like he was in a trance. Perhaps he had a flash back with our past encounter.

I got into my apartment, closed the door, stripped of my clothes and rushed towards the bedroom.  I got the bag with the harmonies and I closed my eyes and I draw a first object out of the bag. It was an inflatable dildo. I was wet, but not wet enough, so I tied a scarf around my eyes (I love that) and I started touching myself. My nipples were getting hard, until they started to hurt, and I lowered my hand between my thighs. It was worm there. I pulled them tight together, and I started to move my fingers in a circular way. It felt really god. I imagined my mysterious neighbor touching me there and I almost came… but I stopped. Sometimes I like to tease myself. I put the dildo inside and started to inflate it. I never had one like this before. I could feel it moving inside me, like a penis that is getting harder and harder. Then I began moving it… and I came with just a few gentle moves. It was intense. I didn’t plan to finish this quick… I still had other toys in the bag. So I thought of smoking a cigarette and trying another one. I cleaned myself with a towel, grabbed my sleeping robe, and went on the balcony. It was cold, and my nipples started to hurt. I guess I was still aroused. As I lighted my cigarette, I heard the door bell ring. It was around 8 and I wasn’t expecting any visitors. I opened the door and I saw my handsome tall neighbor: he was helping his wife with a petition concerning… something. I think he was surprised seeing me and he looked down… or perhaps he saw my hard nipples through the robe. I invited him in with the excuse that it was cold in the hall, but I was thinking of only one thing: fucking him. I closed the door and I noticed that he saw the clothes that were lying on the floor. I smiled and I said ‘These are supposed to go here’, and I opened the robe. He got a hard one, so I approached him without doing anything… just waiting to see what happens. I was really horny. He then threw away the papers and pushed me into the wall, biting my nipples. It hurt, but I liked it. He unzipped his pants without undressing and started fucking me right there. He was the silent type. Not a sound came from his mouth. He came long after I did. Then he zipped his pants and got out the door, forgetting about his papers. I felt satisfied. I got to fuck him!

I went on the balcony for another cigarette, but again, I was interrupted. It was him, coming for the papers. I gave them to him and told him ‘Good night!’. He didn’t say a word, just rushed out of the apartment. Poor thing! I scared him away…

I went back to my bedroom to continue with my toys. It was a great day. I only hope that tomorrow I’ll be able to be fresh at work…