How should a man behave?
Kama Sutra attaches great importance to the role of the man in performing his part of the sexual activity and lays down specific guidelines as to how he should go about them.
a) Undressing his female partner
The male must know the art of sensually undressing his partner and must exercise restraint in showing his excitement and enthusiasm. He must not get carried away by the occasion and must proceed slowly. Women like to be approached with softness and they can get put off by rough and jerky movements on the part of the man. Though the female partner will express mild protests when the man tries to unfasten her dress, he must know that these protests are cosmetic and must proceed to engage her attention by kissing, whispering sweet nothings and stroking her at some of the sensitive points like the groin, breasts and the armpits. These actions will definitely stoke the passion within her and she would lay herself at the mercy of the man.