Sex is a very important aspect in a relationship, whether you are just dating that person or you’ve been together for a long time. When it comes to sex, men tend to make certain mistakes that will compromise it and their relationship. Believe it or not, your attitude and gesture before, during and after sex can damage a healthy sexual life for the both of you. I think you are now curious of what mistakes men can make relating to sex.

Not being romantic in day to day life

I’m sure you know that romance shouldn’t happen just during sex, or when you want to get some. It’s important that you give her attention and tenderness on a regular basis because it will make a huge difference in your sex life, and you’ll notice it.

1. You are having sex for all the wrong reasons

When you want to have sex you should do it because you are aroused, because you’re in the moment and your partner shares the same feelings. Don’t do it because it’s weekend and you should have some sexual intimacy at least once a week. Having sex for the sake of routine it’s not healthy for neither of you. Also, don’t have sex to release the tension you got from work or worst, to avoid the discussion of some issue or to postpone it. Some men suddenly become sensual when their partner is telling them something they don’t want to hear. Moreover, don’t do it when you’re about to break up in hope that it will make everything OK.

2. You are not paying her attention except for when you have sex

If you don’t want any now, why should you bother to give her your attention, right? That will send out the message that you only need her for sex, and trust me, even if she accepts having sex with you, she will not enjoy it. Sooner or later she’ll put and end to it. So if you’re not living together, take her out from time to time without ending the night with sex or ask her to come over and do an activity together besides sex. If you live together, don’t spend all day at the computer or doing something else, ignoring her, and becoming tender only in the night to get laid.

3. You are being sensual and flattering only before sex

You should make her feel special everyday, not just before getting some. Caress her from time to time when having breakfast, for example, without any reason and tell her she is beautiful when she washes her face in the morning. You shouldn’t be like a dog and expect your treats for every nice gesture you make. And appreciate her for who she is and all the little things she makes for the both of you.