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Ideal Sexual Positions

Kama Sutra Creative Missionary
Background
Many perceive the Kama Sutra to be a graphic portrayal of different coital postures and cannot think beyond the sexual aspect of this wonderful book. The reality however is that this is a guide book on how to live life and the topic of sex is just one aspect that is covered in detail within the book.
Importance of positions with respect to the size of the sex organs
The Kama Sutra while advocating specific postures takes into account the size of the sex organs of both male and female and makes specific references to them. So you have specific positions for couples where the female has a large vagina or the female has a very narrow opening and the man has an oversized penis.
Kama Sutra recommends specific positions to achieve the following objectives.
a) Satisfy the woman completely.
The appropriate treatment of women has a special place in the Kama Sutra and this is one book that decries male chauvinism. Even when it comes to sex, it is the prerogative of the male according to the Kama Sutra to provide abiding sexual satisfaction to his female partner.
b) Prolong the pleasure
It is worth noting that Kama Sutra places equal emphasis on the male getting his quota of sexual pleasure and some of the techniques and positions advocated are such that the man does not ejaculate and is able to hold his erection for a longer period providing pleasure to both partners.
c) Adequate stimulation of her clitoris and G-spot
Kama Sutra advises a number of positions where the stimulation of a woman’s clitoris and her G-spot is well taken care of and is done in a manner that is not too direct. This ensures sustained pleasure for the woman and she is able to experience multiple mini orgasms.
Let us now look at the best laying, best sitting and the best standing positions that enable fulfillment of the above objectives:
1) The wife of Indra position – the ideal laying down position
This is a position in which the woman is on her back and tucked up by drawing her knees as close to her breasts as possible. This lays bare her genital area totally and the kneeling man is able to penetrate her by leaning over her thus leaving him free to maintain the right momentum in his thrusts. The penetration is deeper and more fulfilling. It permits the man to withdraw and reenter several times thus stimulating the G-spot more effectively and causing great pleasure to the woman. He can also pause while remaining penetrated and wait for his partner to thrust upwards thus providing the opportunity for both to achieve orgasm simultaneously.
2) The wheel of Kama – the ideal sitting position
In this, the man while seated on a bed or carpet allows the woman to sit astride him while lowering her cunt on his erect penis. Both the partners hold each other’s body and the man is also able to grasp her fleshy buttocks such that he is able to penetrate to the maximum. Since there is contact between both the pubes at some pressure, the female partner gets direct stimulation of her clitoris and groin. Moreover, this position facilitates adequate fondling of the female’s breasts and she is able to adopt a bump and grind routine with her hips.
3) The hump of the camel – the ideal standing position
Making the woman lean against the wall or some support, the man caresses her cunt and breasts from behind thus allowing the wetness and lubrication to occur. He then enters her on bent knees upon finding the right angle. The right angle needs to be found out by asking the woman also to bend her legs or stand up on a slight elevation. The man must alternate between deep and shallow thrusts and at times just maintain pressure on the G-spot without any movement.
