One of the most popular soul music in the world is the song made popular by the god father of soul, James Brown. Full text of the song goes something like this:
This is a man’s world, this is a man’s world
But it wouldn’t be nothing, nothing without a woman or a girl

You see, mn made the cars to take us over the road
Man made the trains to carry heavy loads
Man made electric light to take us out of the dark
Man made the boat for the water, like Noah made the ark

This is a man’s, a man’s, a man’s world
But it wouldn’t be nothing, nothing without a woman or a girl

Man thinks about a little baby girls and a baby boys
Man makes then happy ’cause man makes them toys
And after man has made everything, everything he can
You know that man makes money to buy from other man

This is a man’s world
But it wouldn’t be nothing, nothing without a woman or a girl

He’s lost in the world of man
He’s lost in bitterness

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Today I went to see my friend… well, we’re not quite friends but he’s the closest I got to one. He works in a Sex Shop near to my place, and he’s originally from Slovenia, so we get along very well. I know what you are thinking, but I haven’t fucked him… he’s not into women. I enjoy having small talks with him, and the fact that he always lets me try the new toys before buying them. So I picked up a few and went home. I was exhausted from work, just like in the Beatles’ song, except I don’t have anyone to come home to (not that I’m complaining).

As I got inside the building, I rushed to catch the elevator… there were a few people in there, but I couldn’t wait to try the toys. I didn’t even notice that the handsome neighbor was in there with his family. He was staring at me. I felt awkward, but I liked it. Don’t know why. When the elevator reached their floor, his wife had to call his name to make him get of… it was like he was in a trance. Perhaps he had a flash back with our past encounter.

I got into my apartment, closed the door, stripped of my clothes and rushed towards the bedroom.  I got the bag with the harmonies and I closed my eyes and I draw a first object out of the bag. It was an inflatable dildo. I was wet, but not wet enough, so I tied a scarf around my eyes (I love that) and I started touching myself. My nipples were getting hard, until they started to hurt, and I lowered my hand between my thighs. It was worm there. I pulled them tight together, and I started to move my fingers in a circular way. It felt really god. I imagined my mysterious neighbor touching me there and I almost came… but I stopped. Sometimes I like to tease myself. I put the dildo inside and started to inflate it. I never had one like this before. I could feel it moving inside me, like a penis that is getting harder and harder. Then I began moving it… and I came with just a few gentle moves. It was intense. I didn’t plan to finish this quick… I still had other toys in the bag. So I thought of smoking a cigarette and trying another one. I cleaned myself with a towel, grabbed my sleeping robe, and went on the balcony. It was cold, and my nipples started to hurt. I guess I was still aroused. As I lighted my cigarette, I heard the door bell ring. It was around 8 and I wasn’t expecting any visitors. I opened the door and I saw my handsome tall neighbor: he was helping his wife with a petition concerning… something. I think he was surprised seeing me and he looked down… or perhaps he saw my hard nipples through the robe. I invited him in with the excuse that it was cold in the hall, but I was thinking of only one thing: fucking him. I closed the door and I noticed that he saw the clothes that were lying on the floor. I smiled and I said ‘These are supposed to go here’, and I opened the robe. He got a hard one, so I approached him without doing anything… just waiting to see what happens. I was really horny. He then threw away the papers and pushed me into the wall, biting my nipples. It hurt, but I liked it. He unzipped his pants without undressing and started fucking me right there. He was the silent type. Not a sound came from his mouth. He came long after I did. Then he zipped his pants and got out the door, forgetting about his papers. I felt satisfied. I got to fuck him!

I went on the balcony for another cigarette, but again, I was interrupted. It was him, coming for the papers. I gave them to him and told him ‘Good night!’. He didn’t say a word, just rushed out of the apartment. Poor thing! I scared him away…

I went back to my bedroom to continue with my toys. It was a great day. I only hope that tomorrow I’ll be able to be fresh at work…

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I came home late today. That jerk wanted me to finish the report by tomorrow. I hate my job. But at least I got to know better my neighbors. Some say it’s not wise to fuck where you live … or does the saying go in a different way?

I live at the eleventh floor and the doorman is always happy to open the door for me. I guess he’s happy about opening the door for anyone. As I was entering the building, the doorman’s fake smile was interrupted by the voice of a man telling him not to close the door. I looked back and I saw a 40 something tall man coming my way. The doorman said ‘Hello mister Smith, how’s life with the little missy?’ Of course his last name was not Smith, but I thought it was a bad idea to write down his real name. Actually, at that time, I didn’t even know who he was because as I told you I’m not much of a social person. I only knew his name and that he was married… and good looking. Oh, yes, and that his family was living in the same building as me. But these are just small and irrelevant details compared to what other details I have relating to him.

As he entered the building, he must not have seen me, because he pushed his suitcase under my…ass. I don’t know how he managed to do that, but perhaps the fact that I was wearing a short baggy skirt eased the process. I only know that when the cold suitcase touched the lower side of my ass, I felt aroused. When I feel aroused, I tend to blush… and he saw that. He apologized for the accident, and tried to be a gentleman by opening the elevator’s door for me. His voice was deep and the more he talked, the more horny I became. By the time we reached the 7^th floor, I couldn’t help myself and I jumped on him. I started kissing his neck, with one hand holding his tie up, almost strangling him, and with the other one rubbing his cock. He liked it… I could feel it getting hard. But then, the elevator stopped at the 10^th floor, and she pushed me away and ran outside. I just hate a man who leaves me unfinished. I was not suggesting a marriage; I just wanted to have a quickie! God I was horny!

My floor came next, and I got out of the elevator. I started searching for my keys. I can’t concentrate when I’m horny, so the more I searched the more nervous I got. ‘Can I help you with something?’ I heard a voice and as I turned the other way around, the pizza boy was staring at me. I said ‘Yes you can!’ and I pushed him in the elevator. I blocked the door and I started to unzip his pants. He wasn’t saying a word, just smiling. What 18 year old pizza boy would turn down a horny woman? So we started to fuck. Not that it would have mattered at that time, but his cock was really big! I didn’t even take my clothes of, just ripped of my panties and started ridding him. He finished before I did, but that didn’t stop me in getting what I wanted. I continued fucking him because his cock was still hard. And I finished. I got out of the elevator, but not before taking a leaflet… in case I wanted to eat pizza… .

So perhaps I scared my neighbor, but the pizza guy made my day. I’m sure I’ll see both of them again, though I’m not sure I would fuck the pizza guy again. I get turned on easily, but strangers are simply much more irresistible. And I can say that I now know the pizza guy… really god! Perhaps I should try again with my neighbor?

Tomorrow is another day…

My name is Gemma and I’m 25 years old Polish woman… going on 20. I work in an office in a small local company, and every day I’m taking the bus because I don’t own a car yet. I’m not much of a social person this is why the persons I meet don’t stick around much to become my friends. That makes me a bit sad, mostly because I don’t have close friends to ask me how my day was. At first, it may seem that my life is ruled by routine, but I would not exactly describe it like that. I am a sex addict and I don’t discriminate either of the sexes. This brings me to the reason why I’m writing here. I want to keep an online diary of my memorable encounters. Since I have no close friends to confess to, I will post here all my sexual exploits that made my days special. I hope reading them will give you a kick.

4.      It is not all about genitals

Human body has a wide variety of nerve endings. Trying to simulate other body parts can change the orgasm’s intensity. Experiment with different parts, notice where you fell better being touched or licked, change the intensity and go over again with other sweet spots. Orgasm may come from places you would not expect, just pay attention to whole body, not only genitals.

5.      Get your blood pumping

Find some activities that get you both thrilled. Go for a bungee jump or get parachuted, do something together that will release the special chemicals in your body for a tremendous sex act when you reach your bedroom.

6.      Be naughty even before you are together

If your partner is to reach home late after some busy day at the office, trying to get a little into an early foreplay will sure rush the things, therefore expect when he reaches home to skip dinner and jump to bed with you. Sending a kinky e-mail or text message makes blood pumping into partner’s heart and knowing what is expecting him home will start the party earlier.

7.      Push your sweet spots and discover yourself

Masturbation is not something abnormal, masturbation is a must for knowing better your body. What comes next is an easier lesson to teach your lover.

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2.      Fantasies becoming reality

Try from time to time to put in practice what you are sometimes dreaming about. Do you like being tied in bed or maybe playing a role? Follow your creativity, share it with your partner and use fantasies to have better orgasms.

3.      Guide your partner

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So what is all the fuss about?

The ruling of the French court was surprising and made everybody in France sit up and take notice of the fact that a court can give a judgment, just based on the presence or absence of the hymen and that was deemed as the only proof of a woman’s chastity. It brought to focus the existing situation even in these supposedly modern times and the kind of beliefs prevalent in certain cultures with regard to premarital sex and virginity.

According to a female student, who has been in the US since the last decade, the American culture is refreshingly unique and does not frown upon the fact that she engaged in a sexual relationship with a fellow student whom she loved. Though her family was unaware of this fact, she had decided that since that was the guy she would be eventually marrying; she would have no problems having sex with him. Ultimately though, they broke up and since her family has now fixed up her marriage with somebody from Morocco, she has the onerous task of surgically restoring her hymen just to prove that she is yet a virgin. Women have realised that the earlier technique of fooling a man into believing that he had deflowered a virgin by placing some drops of blood on the nuptial sheets or by artificially making it difficult for the man to penetrate by using the pubic hair to tie a couple of knots is no longer feasible or practical and therefore they have no qualms about undergoing the necessary surgery, if they have been promiscuous before marriage. Many such Muslim women opt for this surgery providing fictitious names and addresses and take the trouble of travelling long distances to get this done so that they are able to present them selves as pure virgins to their families and prospective husbands, even though the procedure is a costly one ranging  between $400 to $1000.

How is the surgery actually done?

The surgery involves placing a duplicate hymen at the vaginal canal entrance and takes about ten minutes to perform. The cost can vary based on the kind of surgical procedure wanted by the patient as some may only ask to stitch the hymen remnants together, which is known as hymenorraphy and others may want the surgeon to insert a capsule made out of gelatin and filled with a liquid resembling blood, which would break upon penetration conveying the impression that the hymen has torn during intercourse. Some others may demand the construction of a new hymen making use of surrounding tissues taken from the wall of the vagina.

Doctors however admit that despite hymenorraphy being taught in medical schools, the operation can be a risky one and it needs expertise to do it right. This procedure was initially done by a prominent American doctor, who took the trouble of training other doctors in his group. Patients are told to keep away from sex and any physical activity for about two and a half months to ensure total healing of the wound. The cost of the surgery varies from $1000 to $2000 in the United States and is lesser at $700 in nations promoting medical tourism. There are other countries such as Korea and China which offer a discount of as much as 50% to students and women who want to go for such a surgery.

So what is the conclusion…?

It is ironical and sad that when the odds are stacked against you in terms of your family not liking the fact that you are not a virgin and you could lose out on a wealthy husband just because of that tissue called hymen not being there, you have to spend money, effort and time to actually construct something and ensure that nobody becomes aware about it. You can even request the surgeon to obliterate any trace of documentation of the surgery and nobody is any wiser about it.

So are such surgeries done only by women who wish to present themselves as virgins?

The answer is a resounding no as many modern married women belonging to the Muslim religion go through the process of hymen repair as a gift offering to their husbands after some years of marriage. This is the beautification or the artificial tightening of the vaginal canal preferred by married women in their late thirties and early forties and they see it as a second honeymoon opportunity gift to be presented to their husbands.

This beautification of the vagina – what is it actually?

It is exactly that. Surgeons actually perform cosmetic surgery by bleaching, tightening and firming up the vaginal muscles to make it look as beautiful as possible. Some doctors decrease the labia size for women who prefer such a thing and do not mind paying a heavy amount for the process. Many women do not mind going through such a revirginisation process many years after marriage as they want to bring back the sexual excitement and oomph back into their married lives. So processes such as labioplasty, vaginal reconstruction and hymenoplasty are just some of the cosmetic surgeries they are willing to undergo. These surgical processes have become very popular and are now advertised as recreational surgery processes. Costs have been coming down over the years and with some countries like Thailand, Hong Kong and China packaging it attractively, married couples do not mind taking them as such package offerings include travel, accommodation, surgery and honeymoon.

Will this pass off as just another novel idea or will it continue?

This can be best perceived as a reflection of the desperation of a woman who wish to please their family and want to put on a false show of their chastity and is also a comment on the rather myopic view taken by certain cultures towards the fairer sex.

In the case of women who have more than one child and face loosening of their vaginal walls and other urinary related problems such as urinary incontinence, the operation can be a very useful one and in fact may also be recommended for good pelvic health. However, to just put up a front for the sake of a marriage and to project something untrue is something that seems unwarranted, but who are we to comment as it is purely a personal decision of the woman in question and the money she wants to spend.

It seems that this process of beautification of the vagina will continue and women will increasingly go for it as an important cosmetic expense to be done to enable them bring back the spark in their sexual life.

In these modern times, women’s liberation is no longer a fancy word and many women are boldly stepping into territories once dominated by men only. That has made them very confident and outgoing and premarital sex is no longer considered taboo by them. They are no longer willing to accept that premarital sex is not appropriate or engaging in it is not in their best interests as they feel any form of sexual attraction must be duly fulfilled. They consider themselves fully equal to men in all respects and if men can sleep around before marriage, so can they.

However they could be mistaken, for we still live in a society which has got set ideas about things and most men are loathe considering a woman who is not a virgin as somebody compatible for them when it comes to marriage. Men still want their potential life partners to be coy virgins and they see it as a challenge to prove their sexual prowess. Many get sexually excited at the prospect of deflowering a virgin, though they may not have had prior sexual experience. In fact this fixation with an intact hymen on the part of men is causing many women to rectify any tear in the hymen caused due to either sexual contact or otherwise so that they can present themselves as the typical virgin sought by their partner. This way they are able to satisfy the requirement of their partner and also keep their family happy.

Let us at this point understand the function of the hymen?

The female sexual system by virtue of it being outside the body has in the vagina, an organ that is capable of cleansing itself. But it is the tube that leads from the vagina to the uterus which is about half a foot long that is susceptible to infection and bacteria can easily deposit themselves on this canal, making their way from unhygienic toilet seats or tampons. This leads to uterus infection and women are thus very prone to urinary infections. The outcome of a urinary infection is smelly vaginal discharges, fever, pain and some spotting of blood.

To prevent such an occurrence, nature has provided women with the hymen that is a film of tissue acting as a gatekeeper to the vaginal canal. This gate prevents easy entry of any bacteria and keeps the canal clean and safe. But since no two individuals are the same, it is possible that some women may have no hymen at all or just have half a hymen. The appearance of the hymen is also different in each woman as is clear from the picture below. This tissue can be split or can suffer tear due to hectic physical activity like sports, gymnastics, and practice of martial arts that involve a lot of stretching. Other similar hectic activities like horse riding or cycling or through use of tampons can also lead to a ruptured hymen.

What are the medical terms for different types of hymen?

It is a misconception that an intact hymen means the woman is a virgin. The hymen can be of different shapes and sizes and depending on them, they are known by various medical terms such as the annular hymen where the hymen manifests itself as a ring around the vaginal opening, septate hymen where the hymen acquires a split down its middle making the vagina look like it has two openings, the rigid hymen, which is quite tough to penetrate and so on.

This tissue or hymen does not fully cover the vaginal canal as the menstrual fluid has to seep out and in cases where the hymen has blocked the opening, women have found it difficult to go about their natural body functions such as urinate, dispose off menstrual fluid, wear tampons and have satisfactory sex. In such rare cases, there is no option but to surgically cut the hymen off.

So why is an intact hymen so important from a cultural standpoint?

Since time immemorial, the intact hymen has been proof of a woman’s virginity and this fact was even checked by somebody neutral to both the parties before finalizing the marriage. Even in today’s times, it is the mother and mother in law who together inspects the girl and make sure that the groom is getting a fresh piece, so to say. If by any chance, the hymen happens to be ruptured, then it is not uncommon for people on the bride’s side taking their life to express their guilt and shame over this and this is prevalent essentially in Pakistan and India. Other countries which still lay a great emphasis on an intact hymen are the Muslim countries of Arabia, Malaysia and Indonesia.

All along the focus has been skewed towards the man marrying somebody who has been sexually untouched. The latest example of this played out in a court in France when the marriage was annulled because the bridegroom discovered on the nuptial bed that his bride was not pure, as in her hymen had ruptured. In fact, this groom immediately went and deposited his bride at her parent’s place. The incident is more shocking when you consider that the groom in question was of French nationality and had an engineering degree. Moreover, he was thirty years old with a lot of sexual experience of his own, as discovered by the tabloids at a later date. Sociologists feel that this fixation with an intact hymen is usually in countries where the people are suffering from poverty and are also dependant on a strong hierarchical system. Hence it is deemed important for the bride to be a virgin so that the progeny does not have genes from outside the clan. This is all the more so since they cannot afford the costly process of DNA testing and there is no other way to ensure this purity of the progeny that is about to be conceived.