4. It is not all about genitals
Human body has a wide variety of nerve endings. Trying to simulate other body parts can change the orgasm’s intensity. Experiment with different parts, notice where you fell better being touched or licked, change the intensity and go over again with other sweet spots. Orgasm may come from places you would not expect, just pay attention to whole body, not only genitals.
5. Get your blood pumping
Find some activities that get you both thrilled. Go for a bungee jump or get parachuted, do something together that will release the special chemicals in your body for a tremendous sex act when you reach your bedroom.
6. Be naughty even before you are together
If your partner is to reach home late after some busy day at the office, trying to get a little into an early foreplay will sure rush the things, therefore expect when he reaches home to skip dinner and jump to bed with you. Sending a kinky e-mail or text message makes blood pumping into partner’s heart and knowing what is expecting him home will start the party earlier.
7. Push your sweet spots and discover yourself
Masturbation is not something abnormal, masturbation is a must for knowing better your body. What comes next is an easier lesson to teach your lover.
8. Experiment sex toys
Buying a vibrator for example could become a tricky thing for a shy person, however, the Internet is crawling with online sex shops, just put an order and have it shipped at your door. Sex toys are great when alone, experimenting with yourself and seeing what suits you or not.
Getting to know each other deeper and allowing your partner to know what you love in bed or you dislike will soon make your orgasms shivering and long lasting, while with time going by you are both aware of your sweet spots that take you up in the sky.