How to give him Oral Sex

I know of a friend who has had the unique pleasure of getting head not only on numerous occasions but also from a variety of women. It is one thing to experience head from a regular companion or partner and quite another getting this privilege administered to you by different women of various nationalities and color. He therefore has assumed responsibility and taken the lead to let us know more about the importance of this skill, as he calls it and is of the definite opinion that girls must perfect this skill to make sure they hold on to their partners and make a success of their married life. Knowing men, that still is not going to stop them from looking out for greener pastures but at least he believes that the woman will have some control over her partner. Every man wants sexual pleasure and the sensations that he experiences with oral sex performed expertly by a woman is the ultimate thing for him.
Sadly, many women do not understand this need and also feel shy about asking for feedback or advice on how to perform it better. Some of them are under the impression that they are already doing such a good job that they need not bother and some others do not want to try it due to various reasons of squeamishness and hygiene.
It may sound odd but a good oral sex between partners is crucial to sex life and a successful marriage relationship. A good blowjob or cunnilingus performed on a man and woman can almost guarantee a successful relationship. You only need to be aware of how to perform good oral sex from people who have actually administered and experienced this pleasure, rather than just picking up half baked information from books and porn movies.
To start with, he recommends two simple basic tips that he feels will make a huge difference in the performance of oral sex.
a) Stop the process of thinking something else while giving head. Very often women tend to lapse into some other thought while performing oral sex and this dilutes the feeling and intensity they had initially. This proves to be a dampener and the male loses his erection. Remember, the mind plays a very important role in sending the right signals to the sexual organs and any deviation is bound to affect the flow of blood to these organs. Women often wonder as to why the man has not ejaculated within a couple of minutes. This is absolutely detrimental to their performance. They should remain involved in the activity and not let their mind wander.
b) Display passion and show that you are enjoying having your partner’s penis in your mouth. If you feel odd about it, then at least act as if you are enjoying the process. You do not know what a great turn on this has on the man and he will be able to hold his erection for a much longer time. When he sees the passion and seductive look in your eyes, he is also likely to ejaculate and that will be a great feat that you would have achieved.
Giving proper head is a skill that you need to master with experience. It need not be perfect the first time, but the fact that you are game for it is itself a great relief and source of great excitement for your partner. You will immediately notice the way he treats you after an episode of oral sex. You will be able to control him and get much more of his attention and that is immensely beneficial for your relationship.

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