Maybe you know that somewhere during the Dark Age all this holiday was called Beltane and celebrated the summer arrival or maybe you have no idea. But who cares about all these when there is a prolonged weekend waiting for you to have a great time? And why would you need to get deep into the philosophy of once a pagan celebration when you have your own ways to celebrate the beginning of a hot season announcing hot dates?

Speaking of hot dates, have you found a weekend date so far? Casual dating works perfect all year long but does it not sound a lot better for these boiling days? As you enter into this mini-holiday, you hookup with someone, go out on a date, go in for a quickie or more than one and by the end of the May Day you will have realized what partying during a holiday really means.

Adult dating websites are a great opportunity for a single to find mature and responsible partners to have fun with on different occasions such as this one. Now that you have convinced yourself that this weekend is going to come, in fact, with tons of fun, you just need to search VeryNaughty.co.uk website for a partner that can keep up with you,and choosing from thousands of members across the UK, all of which are naughty and anxious to make their fantasies come true.

We’ve recently covered the problems and the benefits of friends with benefits (FWB) relationships and we’ve given you all the most pertinent information to decide whether it’s right for you. However, we also thought that it would be a good idea to offer some advice on how to avoid some of the pitfalls of FWB dating and ensure that you both get the most out of the relationship. With that in mind we’ve put together a list of 5 top tips for starting and maintaining a healthy FWB relationship
1. Communication
Good communication is the key to a successful FWB relationship as you need to make sure you remain aware of your friend’s feelings and any changes in them. Whilst it may detract from the casual nature of the relationship talking about feelings, problems and desires/needs will stop you running into any unforeseen difficulties. Even though the relationship may just be about casual sex it will be more complex in reality.
2. Have agreed terms
Having agreed terms means that you have clear guidelines for your FWB relationship in all the important areas that may detrimentally affect your relationship. This should include (but is not limited to) sexual conduct, seeing other people, ending your FWB relationship, privacy and public conduct. Having these guidelines in place means that both of you will know where you stand when it comes to each other – so you make sure you discuss these areas.
3. Make sure there are no deeper feelings
FWB might seem to imply that there is no deeper feelings or desires for a long term relationship between the friends. The reality is that this is often not the case and either that deeper feelings already exist or that they might develop. If you already have deeper feelings with your friend then you may inadvertently be causing yourself additional emotional turmoil by starting a FWB relationship as your friend may move on or not be aware of your feelings. Likewise you need to make sure that your friend also doesn’t have deeper feelings for you as this can lead to problems and in the worst case scenarios the loss of a friend.
4. Don’t be or become jealous
Jealousy is a problem with FWB relationships even though technical it shouldn’t be. In a FWB relationship you need to remember that your friend (and yourself) will be trying to find other, more long term, partners. If you or your partner becomes jealous then it is a clear sign that the relationship has progressed beyond a simple FWB and you should deal with it directly. If, however, you can both accept this aspect to a FWB relationship you should however be able to have a healthy relationship.
5. Have fun
This might seem a little ridiculous as a piece of advice but it’s actually very important. It is very easy to let a fun and casual FWB relationship turn into a headache. If you keep things friendly, open and honest this shouldn’t be a problem but you need to remember that it’s all too easy to turn FWB into something much more akin to a bad relationship. With that in mind best of luck and have fun.

We recently told you about an exciting new challenge we’re running in May. Just a reminder for those of you that have forgotten, we’re going to reward the 3 most winked at guys* with a £50 voucher from Red Letter Days! You can choose from a selection of over 150 experience days including a rookie drive at Silverstone, a tour of Wembley Stadium for two and an indoor golf day for four!

Check out these proven Very Naughty Dates top tips to improve your chances of getting the most winks:

Tip 1: Get Online!

Did you know that many women filter their searches by ‘Online Now’ and who ‘Has a Photo’. Make yourself seen, get winked at!?
Tip 2: Get Winking!

If you send a wink you’re more likely to receive one back. And who knows where that might lead…???
Tip 3: Show Me

Did you know you’re 7 times more likely to be winked at by the ladies if you have good photos on your profile? So don’t be shy, what’s your best feature? Is it your face? Your arms? Your pecs? Get uploading and give the ladies something worth winking at!
Tip 4: Tell Me

You are also 5 times more likely to be sent a wink if you have a complete profile. With so many guys to choose from on the site, a good profile makes you stand out from the crowd. Tell the ladies a bit about yourself and what you’re looking for… and remember, you can update your profile as many times as you like. Fill out your profile today!

This competition is open to all you fellas from now until the end of May.

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The first one is related to women, orgasm and exercises. According to OkCupid, women that do not work out seem to have more problems in achieving orgasms, more exactly the numbers of those with orgasm problems and no “gym” are twice as higher than those that practice exercises. So go practice girls!

The next interesting chart is related to people who prefer or not rough sex. Based on questioning only single people, it appears that as expected, men are more into this sexual practice when women prefer gentle, soft touches when having sexual intercourse.

When it comes to oral sex, it seems that vegetarian people are the best “catch” when trying to receive oral sex while it seems that are more likely to enjoy doing it. Still in the sexual “area”, the next graphs show us that people using Twitter everyday are more likely to masturbate today (why this is not surprising?) and also the most interesting part of this study is related to people claiming they have never masturbated. This chart is based on religions and it seems that Jewish people are the most bashful folks around, while the Agnostic guys admit it without hassles.

Other fantastic graphs are related to women and their body types with each sex drive and self confidence (where it seems that curvy women are ahead skinny ones) and last, but not least, how many times each week college students would want to have sex – based on the universities where they are studying.

Without any doubt, having a big penis is something that most of the men are proud of. And even if it’s said that not always the size counts too much, you know what women think, when it comes to this subject; there are 5 sizes of penis sizes: small, medium, big, extremely big and …. just perfect!

Therefore, the guys from AdultFriendFinder.com thought that it would be a great idea to start a kinky experiment. They selected 64 universities and colleges from all over US. Next, they contacted all the AdultFriendFinder’s male members living within 10 miles from the college from their area. Obvious, they asked every male member to tell the real length of his penis, so that the guys that were conducting the experiment could make penis size state map.

Though, we all know that maps are boring, right? This is why the team has placed all the 64 colleges in a kind of championship. Basically, the guys from adultfriendfinder.com have calculated the medium size per each college in part, and right after that, they have written all the college’s names (and the medium penis size as well, since that was the main “duel gun”) in 64 lines. Now, it’s obvious that in order to find out what state and college is the winner, all the colleges had to battle, right? Well, it would have been a little bit too gay to put men from 64 areas to fight with their penises, therefore they have invented a playoff scheme where, from 64 participants, only 1 would win.

Curious about the results? Well, we were too. And trust us, we aren’t gay not even a bit. Both of the parties, the gay men and the heterosexual women who are still reading this article will be pleased to find out that the biggest penises can be found in Memphis. And, as normal, as there are 2 extremities, if the biggest penises from the US are in Memphis, where are the smallest? You will not believe this, but according to the statistics, they are in Las Vegas. The second place was taken by the Florida state, while the battle for the third place is about to begin between Marquette and Old Dominion.

Although at beginning it was seen just like a great opportunities for men to stare and beautiful breasts, nowadays it has become one of the most popular celebrations in South Africa and it acts like a reminder that a nice cleavage should be something to be proud of, something unique and not only.

An appealing cleavage can bring nowadays more benefits than ever, thus being considered on a funny note one of the best marketing weapons women have. From trying to sell something to even get a better place in a restaurant, a top cleavage can work wonders if used properly…Women should not feel offended if men stare at their boobs but they should be proud, shiny and happy feeling so many appreciative looks on their body. Days when a cleavage was considered taboo have passed away and the National Cleavage Day is here to remind this to women all over the world.

Here are some good reasons why a woman should proudly show her cleavage:
- A great looking cleavage will make any woman feel sexy with all the eyes pointed to it
- A cleavage can be a great marketing tool
- Cleavages are also great when accompanied with a great outfit
- Cleavages are hot

In conclusion, a woman should not just show-off her cleavage but she should show it with pride, as a sign of independence and “hotness”. And this is what the National Cleavage Day is all about.

James’ book is an interesting lecture, spiced-up with some fun but treating an interesting everyday topic: sex and relationships. Text and illustrated pictures are perfectly mixing up to provide the best image related to what the author has to say, whether we are talking about taking the first steps of a relationship (the hook-up, first date etc) or about learning some new tactics in bed that will definitely change the way you have thought about sex in the past. Although written in a funny manner, the book is sending a serious message for all those trying to strengthen their relationships; furthermore, any folk might consider this book is targeting only men however women could lecture it in order to comprehend the difficulties their partners are facing when trying to make things running smooth because let’s face it, pleasing a woman might be the most difficult thing for men all over the world.

Are you too shy to get in touch with a woman? Do you have problems in finding the perfect ice-breaker? Do you feel your relationship is getting colder with each week that passes by or do you think your bed performance should be way higher? The Very Naughty Guide to Sex and Relationships could definitely be the answer to all these questions although there is no guarantee that by reading it you will become a relationship’ guru but on the other hand it can teach you new and exciting things like from pick-up lines to being a “lion” in bed. Definitely worth a reading.

Almost two entire months have passed from this New Year and we can look a little behind and see whether we succeed to get on with our resolutions for 2011 or not, from losing some weight to even learning some new hot positions for long nights. It is very important to look as best as possible for Very Naughty Dates hot girls so let’s talk a little about mind, body and soul. You cannot look good without feeling good, right?

Mind

Both our mind and body needs exercise for staying healthy and active. When it comes to putting your brain wheels on the move it is nothing more appropriate than writing some dirty material or reading other erotic stories that “train” our mind. In parallel, you can always enjoy “foods for the brain” like oily fish, nuts, broccoli or pumpkin seeds and on top of that, a good sleep is exactly what you might be needing.

Of course, these are not the only things you can do to put the wheels on the move, there are always folks available for a quick chat on Very Naughty Dates, why not let your imagination fly and start a dirty discussion with the hot girls out there?

Body

We all know how at New Year’s Party we challenged our body to a weekly workout program but what other way than exercising a little in bedroom you can find both sensual and effective in the same time? Indeed, working your body at gym can burn a few calories but also an hour of hot sex can definitely help you when trying to lose some weight. However, before jumping in bed with your favourite playmate you should definitely work a little at home, at least 30-45 minutes each day should keep you fit.

While we talk about working our body, have you noticed someone on Very Naughty Dates that can become your gym partner and even more? Why not sending a message and start mingling?

Soul

Be calm, positive, relax and enjoy life. As all are inter-connected, so are mind, body and soul so if you want to enjoy sex even better than first energize your soul then go with your body. Try to find out what your partner likes more and make you best move.

This is exactly what you can do when it comes to Very Naughty Dates – take your soul on another level and start sending winks, compliments and some naughty gifts to someone you might fancy. A compliment will always be rewarded with a smile, at least.

So now that you have succeeded to create a connection between you mind, body and soul, here are some bedroom dilemmas that might help you in the future. First of all, when someone contacts you and you want to reply but in a manner that will not make you look desperate, do not send multiple messages and also keep it short. Don’t start with long stories that women are not interested about, just be short and sweet. On the other hand, stop sending winks instead of a short message: although they could sound like a great ice-breaker, a well-thought message could be way better than a simple wink that does not tell other folks anything.

However, their worries seem to have some scientific explanation behind while almost 65% of men have some problems with performing, from erection to premature ejaculation and not only. The online surgery from Man MOT is exactly what men need when facing these problems, experts say. Even though the number of men facing sexual performance problems is quite large and continuously growing, most of them avoid talking about their problems thus aggravating their conditions when having sex as they always “expect to perform better than the last time”.

It seems that although there’s a strong popular belief that men are 100% confident when it comes to performing in bed, studies show exactly the contrary, with a bigger ratio towards men with problems. However most of the times they prefer to struggle and suffer while in bedroom when in fact there are literally tens of other ways for facing these problems. This is exactly what the online surgery was created for: people with sexual disorders and not only are invited every Monday to anonymously speak about what bothers them and furthermore, get some help from specialist and even find the cure to their problems. Because, in fact, these are not problems that cannot be treated, on the contrary, with the proper support and advice they are easy to be treated.

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