We’ve recently covered the problems and the benefits of friends with benefits (FWB) relationships and we’ve given you all the most pertinent information to decide whether it’s right for you. However, we also thought that it would be a good idea to offer some advice on how to avoid some of the pitfalls of FWB dating and ensure that you both get the most out of the relationship. With that in mind we’ve put together a list of 5 top tips for starting and maintaining a healthy FWB relationship
1. Communication
Good communication is the key to a successful FWB relationship as you need to make sure you remain aware of your friend’s feelings and any changes in them. Whilst it may detract from the casual nature of the relationship talking about feelings, problems and desires/needs will stop you running into any unforeseen difficulties. Even though the relationship may just be about casual sex it will be more complex in reality.
2. Have agreed terms
Having agreed terms means that you have clear guidelines for your FWB relationship in all the important areas that may detrimentally affect your relationship. This should include (but is not limited to) sexual conduct, seeing other people, ending your FWB relationship, privacy and public conduct. Having these guidelines in place means that both of you will know where you stand when it comes to each other – so you make sure you discuss these areas.
3. Make sure there are no deeper feelings
FWB might seem to imply that there is no deeper feelings or desires for a long term relationship between the friends. The reality is that this is often not the case and either that deeper feelings already exist or that they might develop. If you already have deeper feelings with your friend then you may inadvertently be causing yourself additional emotional turmoil by starting a FWB relationship as your friend may move on or not be aware of your feelings. Likewise you need to make sure that your friend also doesn’t have deeper feelings for you as this can lead to problems and in the worst case scenarios the loss of a friend.
4. Don’t be or become jealous
Jealousy is a problem with FWB relationships even though technical it shouldn’t be. In a FWB relationship you need to remember that your friend (and yourself) will be trying to find other, more long term, partners. If you or your partner becomes jealous then it is a clear sign that the relationship has progressed beyond a simple FWB and you should deal with it directly. If, however, you can both accept this aspect to a FWB relationship you should however be able to have a healthy relationship.
5. Have fun
This might seem a little ridiculous as a piece of advice but it’s actually very important. It is very easy to let a fun and casual FWB relationship turn into a headache. If you keep things friendly, open and honest this shouldn’t be a problem but you need to remember that it’s all too easy to turn FWB into something much more akin to a bad relationship. With that in mind best of luck and have fun.

We recently told you about an exciting new challenge we’re running in May. Just a reminder for those of you that have forgotten, we’re going to reward the 3 most winked at guys* with a £50 voucher from Red Letter Days! You can choose from a selection of over 150 experience days including a rookie drive at Silverstone, a tour of Wembley Stadium for two and an indoor golf day for four!

Check out these proven Very Naughty Dates top tips to improve your chances of getting the most winks:

Tip 1: Get Online!

Did you know that many women filter their searches by ‘Online Now’ and who ‘Has a Photo’. Make yourself seen, get winked at!?
Tip 2: Get Winking!

If you send a wink you’re more likely to receive one back. And who knows where that might lead…???
Tip 3: Show Me

Did you know you’re 7 times more likely to be winked at by the ladies if you have good photos on your profile? So don’t be shy, what’s your best feature? Is it your face? Your arms? Your pecs? Get uploading and give the ladies something worth winking at!
Tip 4: Tell Me

You are also 5 times more likely to be sent a wink if you have a complete profile. With so many guys to choose from on the site, a good profile makes you stand out from the crowd. Tell the ladies a bit about yourself and what you’re looking for… and remember, you can update your profile as many times as you like. Fill out your profile today!

This competition is open to all you fellas from now until the end of May.

So what are you waiting for? Spice up your profile today!

Don’t forget, you can also respond to your winkers by upgrading online. Get started by login in to you account, if you are a new member, sign up free.

Although at beginning it was seen just like a great opportunities for men to stare and beautiful breasts, nowadays it has become one of the most popular celebrations in South Africa and it acts like a reminder that a nice cleavage should be something to be proud of, something unique and not only.

An appealing cleavage can bring nowadays more benefits than ever, thus being considered on a funny note one of the best marketing weapons women have. From trying to sell something to even get a better place in a restaurant, a top cleavage can work wonders if used properly…Women should not feel offended if men stare at their boobs but they should be proud, shiny and happy feeling so many appreciative looks on their body. Days when a cleavage was considered taboo have passed away and the National Cleavage Day is here to remind this to women all over the world.

Here are some good reasons why a woman should proudly show her cleavage:
- A great looking cleavage will make any woman feel sexy with all the eyes pointed to it
- A cleavage can be a great marketing tool
- Cleavages are also great when accompanied with a great outfit
- Cleavages are hot

In conclusion, a woman should not just show-off her cleavage but she should show it with pride, as a sign of independence and “hotness”. And this is what the National Cleavage Day is all about.

James’ book is an interesting lecture, spiced-up with some fun but treating an interesting everyday topic: sex and relationships. Text and illustrated pictures are perfectly mixing up to provide the best image related to what the author has to say, whether we are talking about taking the first steps of a relationship (the hook-up, first date etc) or about learning some new tactics in bed that will definitely change the way you have thought about sex in the past. Although written in a funny manner, the book is sending a serious message for all those trying to strengthen their relationships; furthermore, any folk might consider this book is targeting only men however women could lecture it in order to comprehend the difficulties their partners are facing when trying to make things running smooth because let’s face it, pleasing a woman might be the most difficult thing for men all over the world.

Are you too shy to get in touch with a woman? Do you have problems in finding the perfect ice-breaker? Do you feel your relationship is getting colder with each week that passes by or do you think your bed performance should be way higher? The Very Naughty Guide to Sex and Relationships could definitely be the answer to all these questions although there is no guarantee that by reading it you will become a relationship’ guru but on the other hand it can teach you new and exciting things like from pick-up lines to being a “lion” in bed. Definitely worth a reading.

Almost two entire months have passed from this New Year and we can look a little behind and see whether we succeed to get on with our resolutions for 2011 or not, from losing some weight to even learning some new hot positions for long nights. It is very important to look as best as possible for Very Naughty Dates hot girls so let’s talk a little about mind, body and soul. You cannot look good without feeling good, right?

Mind

Both our mind and body needs exercise for staying healthy and active. When it comes to putting your brain wheels on the move it is nothing more appropriate than writing some dirty material or reading other erotic stories that “train” our mind. In parallel, you can always enjoy “foods for the brain” like oily fish, nuts, broccoli or pumpkin seeds and on top of that, a good sleep is exactly what you might be needing.

Of course, these are not the only things you can do to put the wheels on the move, there are always folks available for a quick chat on Very Naughty Dates, why not let your imagination fly and start a dirty discussion with the hot girls out there?

Body

We all know how at New Year’s Party we challenged our body to a weekly workout program but what other way than exercising a little in bedroom you can find both sensual and effective in the same time? Indeed, working your body at gym can burn a few calories but also an hour of hot sex can definitely help you when trying to lose some weight. However, before jumping in bed with your favourite playmate you should definitely work a little at home, at least 30-45 minutes each day should keep you fit.

While we talk about working our body, have you noticed someone on Very Naughty Dates that can become your gym partner and even more? Why not sending a message and start mingling?

Soul

Be calm, positive, relax and enjoy life. As all are inter-connected, so are mind, body and soul so if you want to enjoy sex even better than first energize your soul then go with your body. Try to find out what your partner likes more and make you best move.

This is exactly what you can do when it comes to Very Naughty Dates – take your soul on another level and start sending winks, compliments and some naughty gifts to someone you might fancy. A compliment will always be rewarded with a smile, at least.

So now that you have succeeded to create a connection between you mind, body and soul, here are some bedroom dilemmas that might help you in the future. First of all, when someone contacts you and you want to reply but in a manner that will not make you look desperate, do not send multiple messages and also keep it short. Don’t start with long stories that women are not interested about, just be short and sweet. On the other hand, stop sending winks instead of a short message: although they could sound like a great ice-breaker, a well-thought message could be way better than a simple wink that does not tell other folks anything.

Naughty Admirers? now go one step further

Did you enjoy your free read treat on Valentine’s Day? No doubt you’re keen to start replying to all of your naughty admirers, and now’s your chance! We’re giving you 25% OFF 1 month’s membership on Very Naughty Dates if you upgrade before 20th February.
Or are you even completely new to Very Naughty? We are probably the naughtiest adult dating site in UK, registration is free. If you register, upload your profile and then upgrade you account before 20th of February, you can take advantage of the discount offer.

To join Very Naughty please click here.

Whether you admit it or not, there is not a single person that does not want to receive some increased attention on Valentine’s Day, whether from his beloved one or even from a naughty woman he just met. On Very Naughty Dates there are numerous hot women that would definitely want to get in touch with you, so why waiting? There are just 3 days left until Valentine’s Day is here so there’s plenty of time available to raise the excitements levels with just some clicks…

Start sending some naughty winks! Winks are probably the best ice-breakers and this is the perfect time of the year when you should start using them. Over 42% of registered members are looking for a naughty no-strings-attached hot night on Valentine’s Day and about 17% are actively looking for a hot lady on Very Naughty Dates, so why waiting for more? Sending a wink could be just the beginning!

81% of us really like receiving a follow up message so what are you waiting for? Don’t allow this fantastic opportunity pass near you and do not waste your time, start sending some naughty Valentine’s Day messages and “get your groove on!”.

These are the best ways to get attention from the hottest women you have probably spotted on Very Naughty Dates however goodies do not stop here. Start reading the tips and advices Very Naughty has revealed this week and boost your chances of getting some naughty action on Valentine’s Day. Also, do not forget to keep an eye on your inbox, the best is about to come soon, so stay in touch!

Just in case you do not know already, many of very naughty member who responded to our naughty valentine survey said they love receiving message and quite a lot also like sending it to when looking for no strings adult sex contact.
But one crucial thing you probably do not know is that profiles with sexy picture tends to receive more messages than profiles with no picture, that is why we are encouraging all our members to upload a sexy or even better a naughty picture of them self to Very Naughty and we will automatically enter then in a raffle to with £50 worth of gift vouchers. What are you waiting for? Login to you profile today, update a picture if you have not already done so or upload and additional photo if you already have one picture in your profile.

If you are not already a member of Very Naughty dating, please join us today, membership is completely free for women.

Although most couples will try to repeat what they are doing each and every year when it comes to celebrating Valentine’s Day, it seems that Very Naughty members have other plans for this day, and it is not surprising while most members are in search for some saucy adventures instead of roses in a park, right? Very Naughty’s survey is quite interesting when it comes to what people are planning to do on this they, we should take a look on the results below:

52% of you are looking for NO-STRINGS SEX! This is no wonder for naughty members but when compared to a mere 5% who are after a LONG-TERM relationship we start to see exactly what folks are searching for.

49% of you consider LOCATION the most important criteria before contacting someone online. Next up is someone’s profile at 22% followed by body shape at 11%. It is no wonder while finding someone near for no-strings sex depends mostly on the location.

53% of you chose MESSAGING as your preferred choice to catch someone’s eye. Next up was sending a WINK at 39%. Messaging is always a more personal approach, indeed, sending a wink could easy a little the work for those shy folks, however a more personal message can definitely have more success.

A WHOPPING 81% of you prefer receiving a MESSAGE to anything else! Exactly why the above 53% prefer sending messages instead of winks, right ?

37% of you are choosing not to be out on a date this Valentine’s Day.

For our users, Very Naughty need no introduction. For those new to our website, web are one of the naughtiest online dating sites because we actively encourage you to throw away your inhibition get dating with other members. Whatever you poison we have a member whose idea of fun matches your, be it sending saucy email and text messages, meeting for dogging, spanking or just casual adult dating.

Until recently you can only get our website online but not on your mobile phone. We have not got a brand spanking new mobile dating section so that you can login to your Very Naughty dating account on the go. For new users, you do not need to wait to get to you computer to join us. Just visit our homepage www.verynaughty.co.uk on your mobile phone and you will be directed automatically to our new mobile phone friendly website.

You can get basic stuff done on your mobile phone. Some of the things you can do on the mobile phone version includes new registration, login to existing account so that you can read you message or reply to messages other left for you. You can search and do most of the things you normally do on our site via your computer.

So, don’t let not being at you desk stop you being naughty, just point your mobile phone to the new Very Naughty Dating mobile phone pages.

This does not take away from our regular website in any shape or form. you cast till be naughty at our website via your computer. Check our latest naughty dating profiles and much more.