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Here is a brief look at some of them:

a) Female bondage

In these sites, you will find sexy girls dressed up in every day life costumes and playing out their character with a heavy sexual undertone. They bind their victims with ropes, tapes to beds and tables and indulge in all kinds of sexual activity with the helpless victim having to bear all of it.

b) Sadomasochism

This kind of a sexual fetish relates to the concept of enjoying pain while involved in the sexual act and features a lot of spanking and other humiliating actions forced upon the victim by the dominant partner ranging from bootlicking to getting spanked on the bottom.

c) Female domination

This features the female partner playing the dominant role in making her partner – either male or female submitting to her deviant sexual desires. They include penetrations through big strap-on, spitting, pussy fisting, face sitting and the usage of needles to create pain.

d) Exhibitionism

This type of sexual fetishism refers to the character indulging in shameless exposure of her body to seduce or entice her partner. The idea is to tease the partner and ignite raw passion and lust for her while she remains out of reach. It is often combined with bondage and even rape.

e) Foot fetish

Here the fetishist is most comfortable indulging in the worship of the partner’s feet or boots and often ends up masturbating on them. The sexual arousal is achieved by the mere sight or touch of the feet or footwear.

There are other kinds of sexual fetishes as well such as craving for use of leather, silk, being blindfolded and other such variants that are indulged in for sexual gratification.

I’ll be wearing a white hat.

Jackie was at her wits end with dating. She was a great girl she thought, and she wasn’t bad looking, she had a fit body, nice tits and ass, but every bloke she managed to hook up with turned out to be a complete wanker. She just couldn’t get it right, it was as though she had a sign on her head saying ‘walkover’.
Eventually she decided to go on a few dating websites and reply to adverts in the paper. She reasoned to herself that it couldn’t be such a bad thing to do, since she was considering it herself; that must mean that others similar to her were doing the same. She had no luck with the newspapers, and the men were often a little too local; she even knew one of them.
What Jackie wanted was a man; a real man. Trouble was that when she said ‘real’ man, too many men thought it meant having big muscles, a small penis, and a very bad attitude towards women. She was tired of this. What she really meant was an older, more experienced man who could look after her properly. To be pampered by a strong older man was an incredible turn on for her. To be fucked by him would be even better. She often fantasised about it.
So eventually she decided to advertise for the ‘older’ man, rather than the ‘real’ man, and in about three days she had a reply. There was no picture or anything with the reply, simply a meeting place and a message that said her date would be wearing a white hat. She figured it was not that common to wear a white hat; particularly in a coffee shop. It was really quite exciting. She imagined her blind date to be a little like Sean Connery. She’d always wanted to fuck Sean Connery and suck his cock; Jackie had very vivid fantasies.

When the day finally arrived Jackie decided to check out the place a little earlier than the allotted time. She figured that it was safe to check out all the entrances and exits; although when she stopped to think about it a little further she soon realised the ridiculousness of it all. The coffee shop was small and very crowded, and a person would struggle to pass wind in there without someone else noticing.
She’d dressed to impress and put on her very best summer outfit. It was a dress, shoes and bag she’d bought from the department store in the precinct the day before. Jackie was determined to get laid, whether the guy she was meeting was appropriate or not. She was busting for a fuck. It had been around six months since the last time, and the last time was so terrible it was difficult to forget how long ago it actually was. She needed to purge herself.

How should a man behave?

Kama Sutra attaches great importance to the role of the man in performing his part of the sexual activity and lays down specific guidelines as to how he should go about them.

a) Undressing his female partner

The male must know the art of sensually undressing his partner and must exercise restraint in showing his excitement and enthusiasm.  He must not get carried away by the occasion and must proceed slowly.  Women like to be approached with softness and they can get put off by rough and jerky movements on the part of the man.  Though the female partner will express mild protests when the man tries to unfasten her dress, he must know that these protests are cosmetic and must proceed to engage her attention by kissing, whispering sweet nothings and stroking her at some of the sensitive points like the groin, breasts and the armpits.  These actions will definitely stoke the passion within her and she would lay herself at the mercy of the man.

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Background
Many perceive the Kama Sutra to be a graphic portrayal of different coital postures and cannot think beyond the sexual aspect of this wonderful book.  The reality however is that this is a guide book on how to live life and the topic of sex is just one aspect that is covered in detail within the book.
Importance of positions with respect to the size of the sex organs
The Kama Sutra while advocating specific postures takes into account the size of the sex organs of both male and female and makes specific references to them.  So you have specific positions for couples where the female has a large vagina or the female has a very narrow opening and the man has an oversized penis.
Kama Sutra recommends specific positions to achieve the following objectives.
a) Satisfy the woman completely.
The appropriate treatment of women has a special place in the Kama Sutra and this is one book that decries male chauvinism.  Even when it comes to sex, it is the prerogative of the male according to the Kama Sutra to provide abiding sexual satisfaction to his female partner.
b) Prolong the pleasure
It is worth noting that Kama Sutra places equal emphasis on the male getting his quota of sexual pleasure and some of the techniques and positions advocated are such that the man does not ejaculate and is able to hold his erection for a longer period providing pleasure to both partners.
c) Adequate stimulation of her clitoris and G-spot
Kama Sutra advises a number of positions where the stimulation of a woman’s clitoris           and her G-spot is well taken care of and is done in a manner that is not too direct.  This ensures sustained pleasure for the woman and she is able to experience multiple mini orgasms.
Let us now look at the best laying, best sitting and the best standing positions that enable fulfillment of the above objectives:
1) The wife of Indra position – the ideal laying down position
This is a position in which the woman is on her back and tucked up by drawing her knees as close to her breasts as possible.  This lays bare her genital area totally and the kneeling man is able to penetrate her by leaning over her thus leaving him free to maintain the right momentum in his thrusts.  The penetration is deeper and more fulfilling.  It permits the man to withdraw and reenter several times thus stimulating the G-spot more effectively and causing great pleasure to the woman.  He can also pause while remaining penetrated and wait for his partner to thrust upwards thus providing the opportunity for both to achieve orgasm simultaneously.
2)    The wheel of Kama – the ideal sitting position
In this, the man while seated on a bed or carpet allows the woman to sit astride him while lowering her cunt on his erect penis.  Both the partners hold each other’s body and the man is also able to grasp her fleshy buttocks such that he is able to penetrate to the maximum.  Since there is contact between both the pubes at some pressure, the female partner gets direct stimulation of her clitoris and groin.  Moreover, this position facilitates adequate fondling of the female’s breasts and she is able to adopt a bump and grind routine with her hips.
3)    The hump of the camel – the ideal standing position
Making the woman lean against the wall or some support, the man caresses her cunt and breasts from behind thus allowing the wetness and lubrication to occur.  He then enters her on bent knees upon finding the right angle.  The right angle needs to be found out by asking the woman also to bend her legs or stand up on a slight elevation.  The man must alternate between deep and shallow thrusts and at times just maintain pressure on the G-spot without any movement.

Vatsyayan’s Kama Sutra covers a total of sixty four arts including dancing, playing of musical instruments, singing, garland making, painting, calligraphy, cooking, sewing, looking after the infirm, and maintenance of proper hygiene to mention some of them. A girl must attain proficiency in some of them in order to become an ideal wife. While these are the general arts that need to be learned by a girl to run the household, when it comes to sex and physical relationships, Vatsyayan recommends expertise in sixteen arts that a girl must gain proficiency in, so that she and her partner can lead a harmonious and exciting marriage life. Some of them are the ability to read the partner’s mind, tacitly showing encouragement through seductive body postures, permitting the partner to fondle her body parts, be active with her mouth and nails in biting and scratching the partner’s body parts gently, art of seductive undressing, active participation in the sexual act and once done with, conceal the private parts adequately.

Other arts that Kama Sutra advocates is the ability to hold one’s partner to oneself, induce guilt in him if he has shown any neglect, turn down unfavourable and amorous advances from strangers and if need be abstain from sex for some time in order to tease the partner and test his will power.

What is the use, you may ask of knowing all these arts?

Well, the knowledge of the above arts accords character, virtue and a mystical aura to the woman and these arts are very useful especially for prostitutes and concubines. Ordinary women are able to prevent their partners from going astray. Moreover, knowledge of these arts enables widows to lead an active sexual life and they need not reconcile themselves to a life bereft of any physical relationship. A woman is able to understand her partner’s needs without the need for him to express it. Moreover, the arts which require the woman to don the aggressive partner role provide a great thrill in the sexual journey of the couple. The art of very coyly allowing the partner to explore her body infuses a current of eroticism that sparks off great passion and culminates in a very satisfying sexual episode.

The different sexual postures

Kama Sutra also refers to sixty-four postures by which physical contact can be achieved between a man and a woman. One underlying principle behind all these postures is that they should encourage conception and not abortion. The postures themselves are such that both partners feel immense joy during the sexual act and they facilitate easy sexual activity.

Kama Sutra strongly believes that physical intimacy must provide joy and pleasure without which sexual activity is meaningless. That is one of the reasons; it makes a strong case for physical compatibility as the main starting point for conjugal bliss. There is bound to be dissatisfaction in the sexual relationship if a couple is not well matched in terms of their physical structure. The Kama Sutra does provide answers in the form of innovative sexual positions to overcome such problems, but in general recommends physical compatibility between partners.

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Kama sutra lays great emphasis on the subtle acts of foreplay and maintains that the only way to enjoy a satisfying and enduring sexual relationship with your partner is to involve her into the act. Women are not regarded as mere sex objects and are perceived as equal stake holders in the sexual act and Kama sutra places a lot of importance in getting the woman involved such that it is not only enjoyable for her but also for the man. Moreover, some of the postures advocated by this great treatise on sex portray women in ascendant and dominant positions.
It is therefore logical and rational to expect that the act of sexual intercourse is truly incomplete without proper foreplay and Kama sutra talks of the following:

1. The act of embracing
This act removes and eliminates the physical gap between partners and is a very important first step towards intimacy. Strangers can break the ice with this gesture and known partners can express their love and passion with great gusto when they embrace each other. The act of embracing itself goes through four steps such as touching the partner, drawing her towards you, gently rubbing the body parts and then utilizing some force to press each other. During touching each other, the partners exchange soft nothings and once their bodies come in close contact with each other, there is a sudden gush of passion which leads to stroking and caressing each other with great enthusiasm. This action and the body heat generated sparks off rigorous pressing and grinding activity as a preliminary step towards intercourse. Kama sutra advises that the partners must exhibit gay abandon and must not hold them selves back at this point in time.

2. Kissing each other
The act of embracing may be accompanied by frenetic kissing or the kissing may happen later. Kissing is a great precursor to actual sexual activity and can generate a lot of passion if used on the right body parts. The female body provides about eleven ultra sensitive points such as the cheeks, eyes, forehead, lips, throat, the palate within the mouth, the area just above the breasts, the breasts them selves, the arm pits and the portion around the cunt.
c) Using nails
If kissing provided the initial stimulation, using nails to pierce the partner’s body parts gives it a huge impetus and increases the sexual excitement tremendously. Kama sutra advises that the usage of nails indicate a sexual intensity and animalistic fervor that does a great job in provoking passion. Care must however be taken to see that there are no deep gashes.

d) Biting with teeth and lips
This is another highly erotic and passion invoking gesture that needs to happen in conjunction with kissing or during the usage of the nails. Most areas of the body except the upper lip, eyes and the tongue are ideal parts for biting with the lips and even the teeth as long as the partner feels comfortable. Here again, care has to be exercised such that the biting is gentle and not something that causes pain or any mark on the body part. The areas around the bust and breasts are the most sensitive to such love bites.

Kama sutra is not only about various sexual intercourse positions. It is a treatise on the art of living life, sourcing a good life partner, ensuring that both the partners are happy in marriage etc. The misunderstanding about Kama sutra being primarily a book about various sexual positions only stemmed from the unusual emphasis placed on a specific chapter, which discussed the various facets of sex like positions, biting, kissing, oral sex and other forms of unusual sex. Following versions of this chapter in other releases of Kama sutra went a step further and dotted the book with raunchy illustrations, there by overshadowing other useful and informative chapters in the book.

The western world was exposed to the Kama sutra through the efforts of Sir Richard Burton, who translated the original work of Vatsyayana. More than the translation, it was his attempt to publish his work in an extremely sexually repressive and moralistic Victorian period that was remarkable. This work became very popular in the year 1883 and kept getting pirated and clandestinely printed through the years till 1962, when the first formal publication got released in the UK and United States.

Kama sutra is regarded as a classic to this day due to its ability to discuss basic human emotions like lust, shyness, seduction, rejection and manipulation. In ancient India, this book was one of the three textbooks recommended in the study of human sciences, the other two being Dharma (morality/justice) and Artha (money/success). These three books were a must for every person seeking education and it is clear from this that ancient India accorded a lot of importance to not only sex education but also to the art of sensuality.

Kama sutra recognizes women as a very active participant and promotes the sexuality of women as an integral part of the whole sexual act. Vatsyayana actually devotes two full chapters to women, the sixth chapter to the courtesans and the fourth chapter to wives.

Women’s participation in Kama sutra

The unique aspect of the portrayal of women in Kama sutra is the active role that is assigned to her in the fulfillment of the sex act. She is not the passive partner at the receiving end of a man’s lust. Preliminary love which features the act of embracing the partner shows the women playing the active role on two different occasions. In the first one, she encloses her man totally and offers her inviting lips for a kiss which leads to tremendous sexual excitement in the man. The second instance shows her resting one of her feet on her man’s foot and the other on his thigh, while one of her arms is holding on to his shoulder with the other arm around his back. The posture depicts as if she is about to climb on top of him and shows her as a very active and aggressive participant. It only goes to show the stress that Kama sutra lay on the fact that a woman who enjoys sex by actively participating in foreplay can make the entire experience very thrilling for the man as well.

The Kama sutra presents women not as mere sexual objects, but as personalities with a lot of desire to enjoy sex. One of the other chapters also advocates the need for gentleness in a man when having sex with a virgin.

Kama sutra is therefore a full guide on how to enjoy one of life’s most thrilling and essential acts, while recognizing the desires and wants of women as equal partners in the journey.

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