So what is all the fuss about?

The ruling of the French court was surprising and made everybody in France sit up and take notice of the fact that a court can give a judgment, just based on the presence or absence of the hymen and that was deemed as the only proof of a woman’s chastity. It brought to focus the existing situation even in these supposedly modern times and the kind of beliefs prevalent in certain cultures with regard to premarital sex and virginity.

According to a female student, who has been in the US since the last decade, the American culture is refreshingly unique and does not frown upon the fact that she engaged in a sexual relationship with a fellow student whom she loved. Though her family was unaware of this fact, she had decided that since that was the guy she would be eventually marrying; she would have no problems having sex with him. Ultimately though, they broke up and since her family has now fixed up her marriage with somebody from Morocco, she has the onerous task of surgically restoring her hymen just to prove that she is yet a virgin. Women have realised that the earlier technique of fooling a man into believing that he had deflowered a virgin by placing some drops of blood on the nuptial sheets or by artificially making it difficult for the man to penetrate by using the pubic hair to tie a couple of knots is no longer feasible or practical and therefore they have no qualms about undergoing the necessary surgery, if they have been promiscuous before marriage. Many such Muslim women opt for this surgery providing fictitious names and addresses and take the trouble of travelling long distances to get this done so that they are able to present them selves as pure virgins to their families and prospective husbands, even though the procedure is a costly one ranging  between $400 to $1000.

How is the surgery actually done?

The surgery involves placing a duplicate hymen at the vaginal canal entrance and takes about ten minutes to perform. The cost can vary based on the kind of surgical procedure wanted by the patient as some may only ask to stitch the hymen remnants together, which is known as hymenorraphy and others may want the surgeon to insert a capsule made out of gelatin and filled with a liquid resembling blood, which would break upon penetration conveying the impression that the hymen has torn during intercourse. Some others may demand the construction of a new hymen making use of surrounding tissues taken from the wall of the vagina.

Doctors however admit that despite hymenorraphy being taught in medical schools, the operation can be a risky one and it needs expertise to do it right. This procedure was initially done by a prominent American doctor, who took the trouble of training other doctors in his group. Patients are told to keep away from sex and any physical activity for about two and a half months to ensure total healing of the wound. The cost of the surgery varies from $1000 to $2000 in the United States and is lesser at $700 in nations promoting medical tourism. There are other countries such as Korea and China which offer a discount of as much as 50% to students and women who want to go for such a surgery.

So what is the conclusion…?

It is ironical and sad that when the odds are stacked against you in terms of your family not liking the fact that you are not a virgin and you could lose out on a wealthy husband just because of that tissue called hymen not being there, you have to spend money, effort and time to actually construct something and ensure that nobody becomes aware about it. You can even request the surgeon to obliterate any trace of documentation of the surgery and nobody is any wiser about it.

So are such surgeries done only by women who wish to present themselves as virgins?

The answer is a resounding no as many modern married women belonging to the Muslim religion go through the process of hymen repair as a gift offering to their husbands after some years of marriage. This is the beautification or the artificial tightening of the vaginal canal preferred by married women in their late thirties and early forties and they see it as a second honeymoon opportunity gift to be presented to their husbands.

This beautification of the vagina – what is it actually?

It is exactly that. Surgeons actually perform cosmetic surgery by bleaching, tightening and firming up the vaginal muscles to make it look as beautiful as possible. Some doctors decrease the labia size for women who prefer such a thing and do not mind paying a heavy amount for the process. Many women do not mind going through such a revirginisation process many years after marriage as they want to bring back the sexual excitement and oomph back into their married lives. So processes such as labioplasty, vaginal reconstruction and hymenoplasty are just some of the cosmetic surgeries they are willing to undergo. These surgical processes have become very popular and are now advertised as recreational surgery processes. Costs have been coming down over the years and with some countries like Thailand, Hong Kong and China packaging it attractively, married couples do not mind taking them as such package offerings include travel, accommodation, surgery and honeymoon.

Will this pass off as just another novel idea or will it continue?

This can be best perceived as a reflection of the desperation of a woman who wish to please their family and want to put on a false show of their chastity and is also a comment on the rather myopic view taken by certain cultures towards the fairer sex.

In the case of women who have more than one child and face loosening of their vaginal walls and other urinary related problems such as urinary incontinence, the operation can be a very useful one and in fact may also be recommended for good pelvic health. However, to just put up a front for the sake of a marriage and to project something untrue is something that seems unwarranted, but who are we to comment as it is purely a personal decision of the woman in question and the money she wants to spend.

It seems that this process of beautification of the vagina will continue and women will increasingly go for it as an important cosmetic expense to be done to enable them bring back the spark in their sexual life.

In these modern times, women’s liberation is no longer a fancy word and many women are boldly stepping into territories once dominated by men only. That has made them very confident and outgoing and premarital sex is no longer considered taboo by them. They are no longer willing to accept that premarital sex is not appropriate or engaging in it is not in their best interests as they feel any form of sexual attraction must be duly fulfilled. They consider themselves fully equal to men in all respects and if men can sleep around before marriage, so can they.

However they could be mistaken, for we still live in a society which has got set ideas about things and most men are loathe considering a woman who is not a virgin as somebody compatible for them when it comes to marriage. Men still want their potential life partners to be coy virgins and they see it as a challenge to prove their sexual prowess. Many get sexually excited at the prospect of deflowering a virgin, though they may not have had prior sexual experience. In fact this fixation with an intact hymen on the part of men is causing many women to rectify any tear in the hymen caused due to either sexual contact or otherwise so that they can present themselves as the typical virgin sought by their partner. This way they are able to satisfy the requirement of their partner and also keep their family happy.

Let us at this point understand the function of the hymen?

The female sexual system by virtue of it being outside the body has in the vagina, an organ that is capable of cleansing itself. But it is the tube that leads from the vagina to the uterus which is about half a foot long that is susceptible to infection and bacteria can easily deposit themselves on this canal, making their way from unhygienic toilet seats or tampons. This leads to uterus infection and women are thus very prone to urinary infections. The outcome of a urinary infection is smelly vaginal discharges, fever, pain and some spotting of blood.

To prevent such an occurrence, nature has provided women with the hymen that is a film of tissue acting as a gatekeeper to the vaginal canal. This gate prevents easy entry of any bacteria and keeps the canal clean and safe. But since no two individuals are the same, it is possible that some women may have no hymen at all or just have half a hymen. The appearance of the hymen is also different in each woman as is clear from the picture below. This tissue can be split or can suffer tear due to hectic physical activity like sports, gymnastics, and practice of martial arts that involve a lot of stretching. Other similar hectic activities like horse riding or cycling or through use of tampons can also lead to a ruptured hymen.

What are the medical terms for different types of hymen?

It is a misconception that an intact hymen means the woman is a virgin. The hymen can be of different shapes and sizes and depending on them, they are known by various medical terms such as the annular hymen where the hymen manifests itself as a ring around the vaginal opening, septate hymen where the hymen acquires a split down its middle making the vagina look like it has two openings, the rigid hymen, which is quite tough to penetrate and so on.

This tissue or hymen does not fully cover the vaginal canal as the menstrual fluid has to seep out and in cases where the hymen has blocked the opening, women have found it difficult to go about their natural body functions such as urinate, dispose off menstrual fluid, wear tampons and have satisfactory sex. In such rare cases, there is no option but to surgically cut the hymen off.

So why is an intact hymen so important from a cultural standpoint?

Since time immemorial, the intact hymen has been proof of a woman’s virginity and this fact was even checked by somebody neutral to both the parties before finalizing the marriage. Even in today’s times, it is the mother and mother in law who together inspects the girl and make sure that the groom is getting a fresh piece, so to say. If by any chance, the hymen happens to be ruptured, then it is not uncommon for people on the bride’s side taking their life to express their guilt and shame over this and this is prevalent essentially in Pakistan and India. Other countries which still lay a great emphasis on an intact hymen are the Muslim countries of Arabia, Malaysia and Indonesia.

All along the focus has been skewed towards the man marrying somebody who has been sexually untouched. The latest example of this played out in a court in France when the marriage was annulled because the bridegroom discovered on the nuptial bed that his bride was not pure, as in her hymen had ruptured. In fact, this groom immediately went and deposited his bride at her parent’s place. The incident is more shocking when you consider that the groom in question was of French nationality and had an engineering degree. Moreover, he was thirty years old with a lot of sexual experience of his own, as discovered by the tabloids at a later date. Sociologists feel that this fixation with an intact hymen is usually in countries where the people are suffering from poverty and are also dependant on a strong hierarchical system. Hence it is deemed important for the bride to be a virgin so that the progeny does not have genes from outside the clan. This is all the more so since they cannot afford the costly process of DNA testing and there is no other way to ensure this purity of the progeny that is about to be conceived.

It was by sheer accident that Vinod realized that his aunt nurtured equal lust and passion for sex. He had always wanted to screw her for a long time and she was one of his fantasy women and not without reason. With a 38-28-36 figure and a rather brazen look about her face, she exuded raw sexual energy enough to awaken a corpse. But Vinod could never muster the courage and since she was his mother’s younger sister, he also felt it taboo to lust after her and restricted his activity to only masturbating and fantasising about her. He also felt that she had only motherly instincts towards him and whenever she hugged him or pecked him lightly on his cheek, he did not feel any sexual tension behind it.

However one hot afternoon, when his mother had gone to meet one of her friends and his aunt dropped in to see her, he saw his opportunity and was just wondering how to make the best of it. He had been alone and was watching a porno movie on his video when he heard the doorbell ring. His erection was too obvious to immediately do anything and hoping that his aunt would not notice it, he opened the door to see his aunt standing in a sari which did nothing to conceal the lush figure under it.

The look on his aunt’s face said it all and he realized she had seen the bulge on his shorts. Moreover, he had kept the volume unusually high and the sexy moans and groans from the porno movie could be well heard by his aunt outside the door and the lady understood that the boy was busy masturbating till she rang the bell.

“In the gentle light of the month, the mother of all lovers, the sacred spirit of love promises eternal adoration. Then, as if the soul separates from the body and mind’s eye, you can watch the night charm that seems to reveal its most intimate hidden places so that we can enter them … ”

It is almost impossible to achieve all those means by which you can find love, but it’s so nice to know you. Tanya knew how to talk about love and help you understand the secrets to intercept the message of love.
Tanya was a beautiful young woman, a true goddess of beauty that seemed to know them all. Besides beauty and nobility of soul, grace, wisdom was also present.
He looked white dress that mold perfectly delicate that rocked her hips in an extraordinary pace, full of charm and grace. Black locks and waves pouring on half bare shoulders. Velvety peach skin and eyes like two emeralds at sea agitated, I feel pleasure that you face a beautiful goddess.

Suddenly, her lips the color of cherry, stopped his movements and a smile so sensual romp in the corner of her mouth appeared.
- Look! she said, raising his hand and pointing to one of the trees that burned in the fire around which we are. God! … Here one wonders about the talking!
I looked at the place indicated in the hope that I see the stars of the night. Great was my surprise when my eyes were struck by dense crown of leaves that appeared to take place of shelter.
- See, “said Tanya with the same emotion in his voice. Here, in nature, including trees and animals, love has its place. Like us, plants and animals have learned unmistakable language of love.
I spent so long time, contemplating this extraordinary scene. Tanya card knees and sat down, closing your eyes and let the wind to stroke her hair. Dry cracked tree branches covered by flames, and a pale light floods the beautiful face of the woman. For her everything was different. I had to learn much later her secret, but to avoid unforeseen, but to witness a tragedy.
My thoughts were scattered by crystalline voice of the woman next to me.
- There are landscapes hiding legendary love stories that seem unreal to simple story of narrator.
- I agree with you, I say frecându my hands easily. Over time there have been many stories of love, some happy ending, but most with a tragic outcome. Many have become legends, but many have been forgotten.
- You’re right, “said Tanya smile. Today, few people what they remember the beautiful story of Troy and the only history also recalled the famous Cleopatra and her tragic fate. But there are other famous love that most remember.
- “Romeo and Juliet”, exclaimed Anca and wiped her face is light for a moment. Read the rest of this entry »

They were completing seven years of married life next month and Rohit’s mind went back to the time he courted Neha and how sexually attractive he had found her then. Their typical Hindu marriage took place five months after the engagement and in those five months, short of indulging in sexual intercourse, they had done everything else. The actual act, they wanted to reserve it for the wedding night and it is to their credit that they could manage to exercise that level of self control.

But after seven years, he realized he needed a change in his sexual routine with his wife and his immediate thought centered on his friend’s wife Nisha. He had been eyeing her ever since he met her for the first time and harbored thoughts of sucking her ripe breasts which she seemed to always display whenever possible. Initially he thought that she was being careless about the manner in which she used to drape her sari, but soon realized that it was just plain seduction by allowing him glimpses of the fair skin and deep cleavage of her wonderfully high and firm breasts. Even as he thought about her, his hand was rubbing his erect cock and he decided that he must take the initiative and fuck her when he got the opportunity the next time. In fact he was now repenting the fact that he did not read the signals properly enough and wasted precious time all these years.

Occasionally, when fucking his wife, he imagined Nisha underneath him begging for more from him and that invariably made him retain his erection for a much longer time providing his wife complete satisfaction.

As a gym trainer, he was a thorough professional. He did not let his mind wander about even on noticing some of the most wonderful female bodies over the last many months. But one lady had truly succeeded in disturbing this mental control and had created a stir in his loins. She was one of the new members who had joined the gym and was interested in slimming down. He could not fathom why she would want to do that considering that she had one of the sexiest bodies he had seen in a long time.

Yes, she was on the heavier side but that was where she scored over the other well toned bodies he was so used to seeing. Her breasts and ass were huge and every time she bent to do some work outs, her ass cheeks spread invitingly as if begging for either a cock or tongue to pay them service. He found that he could not concentrate on other members when she was in proximity and that began to show with some members complaining about his rather casual attitude towards them.

While he knew this was not professional ethics, this lust for her body was really getting to him and when alone, he would often fantasise kneeling like a dog behind those huge spread out ass cheeks and licking her asshole through her gym attire. It would make him very horny and the massive erection would subside only through a masturbatory release.

Reema stretched herself seductively and got up from her bed. It was pushing nine and she had plans to visit the parlor today. The appointment was already fixed and she had to be by eleven. She was in her mid thirties and a bored housewife. Her husband was busy with official tours and she often found it difficult to control the itching in her cunt which seemed to want some good licking and fucking.

Till now she had managed to satisfy herself with her fingers and usage of the vibrator which she purchased without the knowledge of her husband. But that pleasure was not as intense as the real one and she was wondering how to satisfy her sexual craving. She did not want to take the risk of seducing some other male and enter into a no frills relationship either. The only solution was to coerce her maid Radha into providing her with some sexual gratification. This way there would be no danger and she could have her thrills whenever she wanted.

Radha was her maid for the last two years and was not more than 25 years old. She had a body to die for with luscious large breasts and a juicy ass. Her body was well toned thanks to the physical labor she had to engage in as part of her duties. Reema suddenly realized that for some strange reason, this desire of getting into a lesbian relationship had always been in her subconscious and was now surfacing when she wanted it to finally happen.

She instinctively knew it was him. Ever since she moved in with her hubby a month back, she had noticed this youngster watching her through his binoculars from across the road and also keeping track of her movements when she went down for a walk around the complex.

She too found him quite virile and handsome and often wondered how he would be in bed. Today, she decided to tease him a bit and let him enjoy the beauty of her sensuous body. The exhibitionist streak that is inherent in most women took over and she decided to let him gawk to his heart’s content. She always knew she had a lovely body and was particularly proud of her breasts which seemed to defy gravity and stood firm and high.

Knowing that his attention was riveted on her, she stretched languorously thrusting those huge twin mounds of hot flesh forward and upward. She knew this action will have the desired effect and it did. Rahul, who watching this could not control his pent up frustration and started stroking his erect cock with his right hand while holding on to the binoculars with his left. She then made out as if she was looking for something on the floor and assumed a position on her knees such that her huge ass jutted out invitingly beneath the pant like material she was wearing. This action was so seductive that Rahul thought he might spill his load if he went on with his stroking. He desperately wanted to drill her asshole with his pecker and stopped masturbating momentarily.

He reached the college just in time for the lecture and immediately noticed that the class was full and he was one of the last to make an entry. The only seat vacant was in the back row and he gladly took it. He always preferred the last benches and preferred solitude. It was here that he could indulge in fantasising and masturbate in peace away from prying eyes and friends. He did this regularly and derived immense satisfaction from it. His testosterone level was playing havoc with his system and he needed regular release from the pent up sexual feelings.

The lecture on chemistry had just begun and his mind began to wander.

The morning bus incident had only served to fuel this further. As he recollected the soft touch of the woman’s ass cheeks against his cock, his hand automatically started rubbing his erection through the jeans and despite the thick material, he could sense waves of pleasure coursing through his body. In his mind, he was imagining rubbing his cock against the woman’s buttocks through the thin sari material that seemed to cling to her wonderful high ass. As he fantasized, his hand started moving more rapidly up and down the jeans front and he was in a realm of his own totally oblivious to what was happening out in the front till he got the release he wanted. The semen gushed forth spoiling his undergarments and he was glad that he had worn black jeans.

Everybody however seemed to be paying full attention to the lecture.

Here is a brief look at some of them:

a) Female bondage

In these sites, you will find sexy girls dressed up in every day life costumes and playing out their character with a heavy sexual undertone. They bind their victims with ropes, tapes to beds and tables and indulge in all kinds of sexual activity with the helpless victim having to bear all of it.

b) Sadomasochism

This kind of a sexual fetish relates to the concept of enjoying pain while involved in the sexual act and features a lot of spanking and other humiliating actions forced upon the victim by the dominant partner ranging from bootlicking to getting spanked on the bottom.

c) Female domination

This features the female partner playing the dominant role in making her partner – either male or female submitting to her deviant sexual desires. They include penetrations through big strap-on, spitting, pussy fisting, face sitting and the usage of needles to create pain.

d) Exhibitionism

This type of sexual fetishism refers to the character indulging in shameless exposure of her body to seduce or entice her partner. The idea is to tease the partner and ignite raw passion and lust for her while she remains out of reach. It is often combined with bondage and even rape.

e) Foot fetish

Here the fetishist is most comfortable indulging in the worship of the partner’s feet or boots and often ends up masturbating on them. The sexual arousal is achieved by the mere sight or touch of the feet or footwear.

There are other kinds of sexual fetishes as well such as craving for use of leather, silk, being blindfolded and other such variants that are indulged in for sexual gratification.