I believe having a threesome at least once in a life time is on everyone’s list. The idea of sleeping with two people at the same time is a fantasy that is both bitter and sweet. On one hand, there is a great satisfaction from getting sexual pleasure from two people, and on the other hand, it can get messy and complicated, leaving you with frustration and regret. But they say you shouldn’t regret the thing you did, only those that you didn’t do, therefore a threesome is something that should be experienced at least once.

When you have a threesome you are sharing yourself with two people and also sharing someone with a third person. Something like this can’t be part of a traditional sex; therefore it’s already considered kinkiness. Hence, the three people that are participating in this intimacy are going to experience more freedom, fearing no judgment and letting loose their fantasies. In other words, what other then a threesome is the perfect occasion to try everything you dreamt about? When three people have sex there is also a competition taking place: who is the best sex partner, who can better satisfy a common target and who will last longer (when it comes to men) and will finish first (when it comes to women). It can pressure you into doing certain things that you wouldn’t normally do, but it’s a constructive competition.

In a threesome, the best place to be is in the middle of the action. Anyone dreams about being satisfied by two people at the same time so there is a great satisfaction when the other two partners are focusing on your pleasures. Nevertheless, you can also be giving pleasure to one person or both of them. Every man dreams about having two sexy women orally pleasuring him and, at the same time, any man wants to brag about satisfying two women at once. But this goes for women as well, and it doesn’t matter what the sex of the other two partners is – only heterosexual men have reservations about pleasuring another men. But when a threesome happens, there is always a solution that can please everyone: creating a circle of pleasure where everyone gets satisfied equally.

Experimenting with threesomes is popular even among people who are in a long relationship, and there is no reason why this shouldn’t happen. It allows you to spice up your sex life without cheating behind your partner and you can also learn new moves and better understand yourself and your partner’s preferences. Nevertheless, it can get complicated if one of the partners gets emotionally involved with the ‘outsider’. This is why you should always choose the third person carefully, preferably someone who you will never see again. And if you are not prepared to see your partner having sex with someone else, then don’t do it. It takes three mature people to have such fun and the experience can only be constructive.

Go out there and try some threesome! You only have one life and you won’t quite enjoy it as a wish on your death bed. Don’t regret not having one!