Hybristophilia (Bonnie and Clyde Syndrome) The Killer Fetish

As fetishes go, men tends to have them more than women except for one fetish; Hybristophilia . When you find out what Hybristophilia is you will not be surprised that more women than men have this particular fetish, does it mean that men have more balls than women when it come to sexual adventures and fetish? maybe yes, maybe no.

Hybristophilia (also known as Bonnie and Clyde Syndrome) is described as a paraphilia involving being sexually aroused or attracted to people who have committed an outrage or a gruesome crime. You can draw your own conclusion from this given the number of marriage proposal the Kray twins had whilst in broadmoor and in prison.

Two Australian women who were reported to have Hybristophilia leaft their marriage to regular everyday men to befriend two killers who were serving long sentences in a prison. The sisters married these dangerous men when they were freed. A few weeks after the marriage, one of the sisters was killed with a hammer by her new husband. The other sister just managed to escape from being strangled by her new husband.

Notorious people who were said to enjoy the attention of women suffering form Hybristophilia includes the Yorkshire ripper Peter Sutcliffe, Ted Bundy and Moira Hindley.

Oral pleasure

oral fun and pleasureSex is not sex without a proper prelude and the word ‘oral’ should be in your thoughts along with ‘giving’ and ‘receiving’. Oral pleasure is as important as the penetration and very often it can improve or damage a sexual experience. This is why is should be the first thing on your mind when satisfying your partner without making it compulsory for him or her to return the favor. Sometimes, oral pleasuring can offer enough satisfaction in an intimate session without being followed by a penetration: orally stimulating your partner can determine him or her to reach orgasm.

Giving oral pleasure should be exciting for all the involved parties. Some people enjoy offering oral pleasure as it is stimulating them sexually: the thought that you are satisfying your partner can be quite a turn on. Moreover, the close sight of his or her intimate part can also be an intense stimulation. Remember that practice makes perfect and you are not expected to be a professional no matter how many times you pleasured someone with your mouth. The important thing is to look for signs that tell you if you are doing the right thing and when you should increase the intensity and speed: the body language and the sounds made by your partner should tell you all you need to know. But if you don’t get such reactions, try and do things differently until you do; but don’t be a pessimist as your partner might not express the pleasure he or she if feeling in an obvious way.

When you receive oral pleasure…well… I don’t have to tell you how good it feels! Some people, especially men, consider it a love gesture from their partners’ behalf. In other words, when you give your man a blow job it tells him that you accept and love his alter ego – his penis. Receiving oral pleasure doesn’t leave you with much things to be done, except showing your partner that you appreciate the gesture and to let him or her know that you are having a good time. This is important because it will show him or her that his or her effort is not in vain. An important thing to remember when you receive oral sex is not to constrain your partner to do it or to force him or her into prolonging the act or doing anything that will make the experience a bad one for him or her. And of course you don’t have to give it back in return, but it would be a nice thing to consider.

Whether you are giving or receiving oral pleasure it is important to take care of your hygiene. Do wash your intimate part before the sexual act even if you don’t expect to receive an oral. Make it a great experience to enjoy for all the involved parties and, as according to the Buddhist belief, you are bound to receive what you give at one point in your life!

Saucy email or chat

saucy email or chat‘I want your hard dick in my cunt’ or ‘I would like nothing more than to lick your wet pussy’… These are sentences that would turn anyone on if read in an e-mail or in a chat room. The excitement of talking dirty to someone on the Internet can be an intense experience and turn your engine on after a few read words. This is the type of flirt that can be considered aggressive and its only purpose is to arouse all the involved parties. The only logical follow-up to it is, of course, a decent masturbation or a quick intimate meeting – if you don’t want to be frustrated for the rest of the day!

Having a saucy chat with a stranger is the first step toward a relationship or at least towards a sexual encounter. In the worst case you end up with none of these two, bragging only with the pleasure of the chat. Sometimes this is just the thing that people are looking for: the kinkiness of talking dirty with a stranger without meeting him or her in person. It is similar to phone sex but only better: you get to imagine every detail about your partner including his or her voice. When you have theses sorts of conversations with strangers it is important to keep it safe: the only limitation that you should have when you write is the one concerning your personal details. Don’t be intimate by sharing your home address or your work place; keep it simple and stick only to the intimate details that turn both of you on.

Of course, you can use saucy email to spice up your relationship. Just surprise your partner with an unexpected mail when he or she is at the office and you will have a pleasant night that will make you feel young again. Don’t be afraid to experiment because you should have the guts to try anything in a relationship! You can also do a bit of role playing by pretending to pick up each other on chat rooms. Exciting, right? Just make sure you talk with the right person – to avoid any unpleasant conflicts. And whether you are talking to a stranger or to your long time partner, do test the waters first! See if your partner would really enjoy such conversations and wouldn’t be shocked by it – you can do that by adding a bit of dirty talk while you’re having sex. Nevertheless, you could take a risk with a stranger: if that person is not stimulated by your email or chat then he or she would only ignore you… so you have nothing to loose.

When you start such saucy email or chat, don’t worry about what you are going to say or how things will turn out. You will always find new and exciting things to say to your partner and remember that your pleasure comes first! You should say whatever turns you on and not give in to his or her expectations. You can always find a new partner to flirt with so this is your moment of being selfish!

Phone and Webcam fun

webcam sexSex does not necessarily require your partner to be sitting next to you in flesh and bones. His or her presence can happen through technology and the stimulation is often as intense as the real thing. If you ever tried phone or webcam sex you know what I’m talking about. Technology is a result of evolution and everything related to it is a step forward toward the future. Every aspect of our lives is influenced by it and our sexual life is no exception to this: from a simple tease over the phone to virtual sex we are bound to squeeze every single lemon that life has to offer.
Imagine having a sexy talk over the phone with your partner and ending with both of you sexually satisfied. When you are having phone sex it’s all about what, when and how you say things. You don’t even have to tell the person at the end of the line the truth about what you are doing or what you are wearing and this can really set your imagination loose. Don’t be afraid to test the waters and do or say anything that is the closest to your fantasies: the fact that your sex partner is not a living presence can release you from the pressure of being judged. This is why phone sex became so popular in modern days and it also became a prosperous business: in your lonely nights, you can always call a hot line and have a professional take you on the highest sexual peek – as long as you can afford it, of course.
The same goes for webcam sex. You are not pressured by a living presence and you can experiment with the kinkiness of voyeurism or exhibitionism. It can be quite a turn on to watch a stranger take his or her clothes off for you and do whatever you ask him or her to; and also, you can get horny by stripping in front of the computer while you are encouraged by someone to touch yourself in your intimate parts. The pleasure of having webcam sex is also fueled by the idea of the forbidden fruit: you can look but you can’t touch – in this case, the fruit touches itself. Of course, if you can’t find any willing people to share such interactive experience with, there are plenty of online offers that require only money from your behalf, but the experience is worth it!
But phone or webcam sex can be a lot of fun even in a relationship. First of all, they are the perfect solution for long distance relationships as they keep the passion flame alive. Secondly, they can spice up your relationship and improve your sex life no matter what age you are. Don’t hold back on experimenting with such things as they are now as natural as the missionary position. Of course, you don’t get to have intercourse or even touch or be touched by the other person, so imagination here is the most important one. Have fun with these things and remember to always wash the phone or the keyboard  after the session is over.

Visiting ‘Special’ shops

visiting sex shopsAs a child you play with toys and it’s only natural to do it as an adult… but with a different category of items. The types of toys that I’m talking about are meant to give you sexual satisfaction and nowadays it’s not that odd to own at least one of them. If you ever visited a sex shop then you know there are plenty to choose from no matter what your tastes are. If you have certain reservations about trying some, don’t! It’s your given right to experiment and reach orgasm by any means possible, so why pass out on the occasion?

Doesn’t matter if you are single, dating or even married; sex toys are out there waiting for you to use them. As a single person you rely on them to satisfy your sexual needs as masturbation is the most natural thing in the world. Of course, with some proper toys, there is the risk of you not searching for a partner since you already have one with no expectations – if you know what I mean. A single woman’s best friend is her dildo, while the same item is used by men as well: there are sex toys that imitate the shape of the vagina with the bonus that it’s in the mood for sex whenever you want it to be!

The best thing about sex toys is that they can spice up your sex life in your relationship. There are different items to ensure you are going to have a good time whether or not you are satisfied by your partner. Moreover, there is also a certain kinkiness that comes with them. The most innocent product that you can find in a sex shop, the common massage oil, can make you want to stay in bed for the rest of your life. But if you are into more extreme stuff, you can find a complete set of BDSM special items that will satisfy every fantasy. Just visit any sex shop and begin experimenting… and bring your partner along for the ride.

Don’t be afraid to try new things; you might get satisfaction from items that you never thought you would. Of course, if it’s your first time in the shop or you just don’t know what to try next, you can always ask the salesperson:  he or she might become your new best friend. And remember: you can also surprise a friend by buying him or her a special present so don’t keep this kind of pleasure only to yourself. So use any excuse you can think of to visit a sex shop and don’t just stick to the one that is closest to your home.

When you enter a sex shop, the only thing you risk is getting lost in there while imagining all the things you can do with the products. It is a fairy tale place where adult’s fantasies can be fueled by magic tools and all desires are satisfied!

Kinky public games

kinky public gamesWhat can be more exciting than having sex in public? How about just watching other people having sex in crowded places or just looking under the skirts of the passing women? There are all sorts of public games that can turn you on. Whether you are single or seeing someone, the public space can offer you great sexual excitement. Doing a kinky outdoor activity is a curiosity that you should be pleased and if you are already doing it, just make sure you don’t get caught!

If you dream about strangers coming to you on the street and proposing a quick number, staying in-doors will lower your chances of materializing it. Go out and use your charm! It might be that some things only happen in porn movies, but having casual sex in public is not that rare. Clubs and pub are the preferred location for such public games, and you can have a good time in bathrooms or even under the table – in an intimate and dark pub, of course! The thought of being caught or simply thinking that you are doing something ‘you are not supposed to’ can be an aphrodisiac. When the adrenaline is fueling your pleasure only good things can happen to you.

Even as a couple, you can have a lot of fun with public games. There are people who have sex on the stadium, in public swimming pools, in a less populated street or while having a picnic. Why shouldn’t you have some similar fun yourself? Of course, you shouldn’t do it in a crowded place where it might offend other people or young children. If you are discrete, there are ways of getting satisfaction even on a crowded open bar while meeting with some friends. Lots of things happen under the table while naughty hands are present. Think simple and make sure both parties involved get their share of satisfaction.

Public games can really spice up your relationship and make you feel like a teenager no matter what age you are. You can even take your role playing in public as your acting will be more realistic since other people are involved. It would not be a good idea to play the bad guy with a stranger or in front of the police, so make sure you keep it safe. Also, don’t do anything that might make those around you uncomfortable: for instance, if you do enjoy peeking under skirts, do it in a subtle manner and don’t get caught – don’t go straight to women and pull up their dresses!

Once you experience such public games you will want to do it again. It’s not a drug, but you won’t be able to be satisfied in the same way again. Do try it because it’s something that is worth remembering on your death bed. It’s all about living in the moment and taking risks: exciting, right?

Crossdressing for everyone!

cross dressingCross-dressing can be a lot of fun and you can really get turned on by simply wearing clothes that are traditionally created for the opposite sex. Whether you are a man or a woman, you can ‘borrow’ clothes from the opposite sex and stimulate yourself or your partner sexually. It doesn’t matter if you are straight, bisexual or prefer having relationships with the same sex, cross-dressing is for you. Open your mind and give it a try, and if you already know you can’t live without it, just enjoy life and all that it has to offer!

Dressing like the opposite sex is a fetish. Straight people do it as well, although it is associated with homosexuality. As a man, you can even wear a beard and take on a fancy dress… you know you will be turned on. Actually, this combination is referred to as ‘genderfuck’ and it’s as kinky as you can imagine. It’s your right to do the things that turn you on and it has nothing to do with your manliness. Some women prefer dressing as a man and it can stimulate you sexually in a way that will make you feel there’s something missing when you don’t do it. You can’t say you don’t like it if you never tried it, so don’t impose yourself limits: there are plenty to live with anyways.

When you have such fetishes, it’s nice to share them with your partner. By this I don’t mean just being honest about what you like, but also finding someone special that is into this. Look for someone who likes cross-dressing as well or gets turned on by you wearing those clothes. In this way, you will be comfortable in any relationship and your personality and preferences will not hide until your grandchildren might discover them by accident. Cross-dressing in a couple can spice up your relationship, so give it a try. It can be a role playing that both of you will enjoy.

As a woman, it’s quite difficult to push cross-dressing to the extreme. You can wear man’s clothes in public and no one will find it odd – it’s quite fashionable. Of course, as a man, if you do wear a dress in public then people will tend to judge you. I think the extreme way of cross-dressing is the Drag Queen. A man who is dressed in such a way will not only draw attention by wearing women’s clothes but also through his make-up and the choice of fancy clothes. If this is your thing, go for it! Some men prefer less discrete way of cross-dressing and if you feel you are trapped in the wrong sex, why shouldn’t you become a woman? Cross-dressing is the first step toward it.

Pick up the clothes that turn you on and set you free, regardless of what gender they were created for. Cross-dressing is a fetish that requires open-minded people and it can offer huge satisfaction, including sexual one!

Experimenting with orgies

sex orgy‘Care for an orgy?’ How many men dream about hearing these words from a sexy stranger or even from their wife? Many women as well have fantasies about taking part in orgies but compared to men, they are less likely to fulfill their wish. Orgies are the perfect thing for you to set yourself free and experience intense pleasure, so don’t hold back when the opportunity comes! You should try it at least once in your life no matter what age you are and what is your status.

Orgies are different from threesomes and group sex. In such an activity, people are sleeping with each other or at least gaining in some sort of sexual intimacy with the majority of the participants. In other words, if you are invited to an orgy as a man, you should consider being intimate with other males as well. If you are only looking to have sex while others watch you and you are watching them, then it’s called having group sex. You should be open about new experiments and give it a try even if you have reservations about having sex with someone of the same sex.

The perfect time to experience with orgies is as a single man or woman. You don’t have any responsibilities but for yourself and you can gain experience that will help you in your future relationships. You know the saying that college is the time for experimenting everything, so if you are young, don’t think twice about it. But even if you graduated a long time ago – and your grandchildren are visiting you during summer – it’s never too late to participate in an orgy. As a married person, you can share it with your partner – and it will not exactly be cheating. This is a spice that will improve your relationship and you will get to know each other’s preferences.

Of course, you should always play it safe, especially if you are intimate with strangers. You don’t want to risk contracting diseases that will leave you with a bitter taste. Orgies are a lot of fun but nevertheless, they require a certain degree of maturity and responsibility from its participants. And speaking of participants, the only excuse for having orgies with friends or colleagues from work is that you were all drunk. You should always choose people you know you will never meet again; just to detach yourself emotionally from the sex. A good orgy should end in pleasure and memories, not in hurt feelings and other bad consequences.

Have an orgy at least once in your life and you’ll have something spicy to brag about to your grandchildren! Play it safe but let your fantasies loose: this is the perfect moment to make your wet dreams come true!

The exciting experience of role playing

role playingThere is no better way of spicing up your sex life than role playing. This is the most popular choice among couples that want to set themselves free and make their fantasies come true. When you experiment with something like this you are free to be whoever you want and to sleep with whoever you dream of without cheating on your partner. Moreover, you get to have an intense sexual pleasure because everything is new and exciting – remember your first sex as a couple? You should have no reservations for trying role playing so do it once and you will make of it a regular thing, something to look forward at the end of the month or even week.

Some people like playing different characters to turn themselves and their partner on. There are many shops where you can buy costumes and you can even make your own, just let you imagination run loose. You can dress as a superhero or as a villain and your lady can be he victim that is either saved or held in captivity – sound exciting, right? You can both wear costumes that would allow you to slip in the skin of famous couples throughout history or make some unique combinations: Zorro can sweep Marilyn Monroe of her feet, if you know what I mean. Just make sure you are both comfortable with the choice and if you have children, don’t let them catch you in your disguises, it might confuse them.

You can also do some role playing without wearing certain costumes. This is quite practical and it only requires a change in attitude and some decent acting. You can use your imagination and improvise to get the maximum out of the experience. For instance, if you and you partner have compatible rape fantasies, you can play them one – just use a safe word when you want to put an end to it. No one should be forced into doing something they are not comfortable with so make sure it’s your coup of tea. You should try and fulfill your fantasies so don’t hold back on giving your best shot. Of course, if your idea of role playing involves knifes or any other items that might hurt your partner, play it safe!

Role playing can make your sex life amazing! If you didn’t try it before and have no idea how to do it, just talk with your partner about your fantasies and see where it takes you. You can experiment with it by choosing random character to play from a list both of you make: in this way, you won’t be ashamed of your given task. Play it safe and be open-minded about anything! A successful role playing should satisfy both of you and break any routine in your life.

Watersports for your sexual pleasure

golden rain watersportsThese are not your typical sports that are performed in the water. If you ever heard of ‘golden showers’ then you already know what this article is about. The idea of seeing other people urinate or feeling their urine on you makes you horny and even makes you reach orgasm. This shower is considered a taboo and thought of being kinkier than BDSM, cum swallowing or rape fantasies. This is the main reason why people are reserved when it comes to experiencing with it, but you should consider giving it a try. Read the following parts to see why.

Peeing is considered an intimate experience and from an early age you are taught that you shouldn’t watch other people doing it. This is where the first excitement draws its origins. People are more likely to be turned on by something that is forbidden, and seeing someone pee, especially while having a full view on his or her genitals is quite a forbidden fruit. If you are in a relationship, you should try it once because the level of intimacy between you will be higher and the bond will be strengthened. Also, doing it with a complete stranger might set your fantasies free, as you don’t fear a possible judgment.

Most people reject the idea of experimenting with golden showers because they believe it is unhealthy for them and… unhygienic. This is far from the truth! The urine of a healthy individual in quite clean and it doesn’t harm the organism. Drink at least 8 glasses of water per day – which is highly recommended for a healthy life – and your partner wouldn’t have to worry about it being unclean or dirty. I don’t have to tell you that its taste and smell is not quite similar to a soda or a juice, but if you drink fruit juice 45 minutes before the experiment you will improve the urine’s taste and smell. Of course, the specific smell or the liquid will still be present, but scientists say that this is what attracts us in the first place: the subtle scent of the urine works as an aphrodisiac.

Feeling the urge to pee while having sex can enhance your sensitivity and the orgasm can be much more intense. You can try it for yourself: just hold your pee for as long as you can ant touch your intimate areas to test their sensitivity. Moreover, if you let go of the urine while having sex, as a woman you will reach orgasm much faster, because you will not worry about embarrassing yourself and you will be able to focus only on your orgasm. I think there are plenty of reasons why you should experiment with golden showers. If you don’t know where to start or how to do it, there are some classical things you might want to try. As a man, you can release a jet or urine directly on your partner’s clit while she is aroused – to make her come –, and this is called the Cataracts of the Nile. Also, you can give her oral sex while she holds her urine or even as she urinates in your mouth and this is called The Fountain of Venus. As a woman, you can urinate on his penis while you have it inside you, a practice referred to as Watering the Oak Tree; or you can do that while you give him a blow job – referred to as Log in the Amazon.

Watersports or golden showers can be an exciting way of spicing up your sex life. Be open-minded about it and give it a try: pleasure can come from things you never imagined it would!