Have folks had much luck on adult dating sites?

[ukadultdatingguide]

I've been 'playing around' on adult dating sites for a bit more than a year now and wondered how everyone else has been getting on? Which one's have you joined? Which in your experience are good and which bad?

I have had some great fun with some great ladies but boy what a lot of work to get to the fun stage. I must've sent thousands of messages to get perhaps a hundred replies and then ended up chatting to maybe 20 ladies. I guess that's just what us guys have to do what with the often huge men to women ratios on these sites.

However, despite the expense and effort involved it has been fun. It's just a case of peservering and being able to spot the fake profiles used to lure you into joining and those ladies just after a bit of attention.

At the moment I have 3 regular fun buddies (they know about each other and are fine about it) so don't give up guys.
Nick

[jake]

Nick thanks for sharing your experience in the adult dating world with us, its nice to have 3 fun buddies, not strings attached whatsoever

[joe blobb]

Out of sheer boredom I have joined sites and found them poor. At Benaughty you are sent loads of emails from women apparently wanting to chat to you but you cannot read them until you pay up. Pay up and you find that almost all are bogus, sent by admin. Apparently the fairest is illicit encounters but it is very expensive just for chat, great if you really want to hook up.

[ukadultdatingguide]

Yes. It's a shame the sites feel they need to use these tactics to lure people into joining. They obviously know that the vast majority of blokes who join these sites are not successful in hooking up with women otherwise they would grow simply on reputation.

I made a post on my site about a poll put up by Benaughty which came out showing that almost 85% of respondents had never had a meet!

If you can see past the fake profiles then there is fun to be had on them - but you just have to wise up and be realistic. Unless your some kind of sex god (in which case what are you doing on the site?) then women don't generally contact you - you have to chase them, just like in the real world

As you say Illicit Encounters probably is the mot genuine one out there but at £119 for 30 days is out of my range at the moment.

[jake]

Illicit Encounters seem to be the best of the adult dating sites, most users (men) claimed to have meet genuine women there. I agree with you, its rather pricy but if it delivers the goods, I think its worth it than paying £20 and getting nothing.

[joe blobb]

I have met up with and made friends from forums where there is no charge. You get to know people through their posts and it is easier to decide if you have anything in common.

[larons]

Nice. Well maybe girls really are looking for someone really interesting. well they know also that they are not the only one you message. so maybe some will just reply you lol.