Love is an enigma you cannot touch it – feel it or see it – it is a mystery! Because one can say literally – ‘I loved f**king that girl last night’ meaning – you enjoyed making love to that girl last night – but you did not have to love the girl before you were able to shaft her gushing wet gash. So girls and boys caveat emptor if you want to f**k fine! But do not let ‘LOVE’ get in the way of your lovemaking.
Oscar Wilde one more time – quote - "Women are meant to be loved, not to be understood." -- “The Sphinx Without a Secret” Note he used the word loved not love!