Gemma
04-11-2010, 01:56 PM
This post is mainly for men (as women don't actually have a problem when wanting to have sex with her date). So, for those that have a hard time getting laid, here are some tips that would help you reach your goal.
1. Let her know you are not just a friend. If she starts complaining about her problems or about her ex boyfriend, listen to her, but do not project yourself as a friend! In order to have her in your bed (or wherever), you need to create a sexual tension, and you can't do that by talking about mundane things. So talk about thing that provoke her, tease her, or mostly make her feel intense emotions. Talk about sex! Play with her mind.
2. Touch her in the right place(s)... before being intimate (but during sex as well). Picking her up and bumping into her while walking will send out the right message. If you want to be more then just a friend or a date, touch her hair, neck, hands, knee... and find silly excuses for doing that (play with her).
3. Don't ask, just act! If you waste time with asking, she might change her mind. Don't worry, if she doesn't want to have sex with you, she will let you know. But why ask her a stupid question like 'Do you want to have sex now' (or something similar), when you can be indirect. It's all about the play!
Small but important tips:
- lead her into thinking sexual thoughts
- keep a constant eye contact (don't stare, but look her in the eyes as much as you can)
- slow down you speech and deepen your voice (it means that you are in control, which is hot!)
- insert pauses in your conversation and look her in the eyes (if she is comfortable with that, you will get what you want)
1. Let her know you are not just a friend. If she starts complaining about her problems or about her ex boyfriend, listen to her, but do not project yourself as a friend! In order to have her in your bed (or wherever), you need to create a sexual tension, and you can't do that by talking about mundane things. So talk about thing that provoke her, tease her, or mostly make her feel intense emotions. Talk about sex! Play with her mind.
2. Touch her in the right place(s)... before being intimate (but during sex as well). Picking her up and bumping into her while walking will send out the right message. If you want to be more then just a friend or a date, touch her hair, neck, hands, knee... and find silly excuses for doing that (play with her).
3. Don't ask, just act! If you waste time with asking, she might change her mind. Don't worry, if she doesn't want to have sex with you, she will let you know. But why ask her a stupid question like 'Do you want to have sex now' (or something similar), when you can be indirect. It's all about the play!
Small but important tips:
- lead her into thinking sexual thoughts
- keep a constant eye contact (don't stare, but look her in the eyes as much as you can)
- slow down you speech and deepen your voice (it means that you are in control, which is hot!)
- insert pauses in your conversation and look her in the eyes (if she is comfortable with that, you will get what you want)