Gemma
04-08-2010, 03:29 PM
It is known that people can manipulate through sex: they can get what they want (and it's more then just sexual satisfaction).
Some women (but men also, even if fewer in number), use sex as a power tool to advance in their career. But you already knew that. The manipulation I'm talking about here is the one happening within a relationship, in your own home.
Have you ever had sex with your partner with the sole purpose of convincing him to buy a new car or to arrange a vacation somewhere. It's called manipulation, even if your partner is not fully aware of that. Sometimes, you even do it without being conscious of it... it is a natural thing, an instinct. You know your partner is weak when being aroused (just like wild animals) so you take advantage of that.
I think it's wrong to use sex with the purpose of manipulating someone... as long as you say you respect your partner. If you don't, then I have no problem with it. :cool:
What do you think about manipulation through sex?
Some women (but men also, even if fewer in number), use sex as a power tool to advance in their career. But you already knew that. The manipulation I'm talking about here is the one happening within a relationship, in your own home.
Have you ever had sex with your partner with the sole purpose of convincing him to buy a new car or to arrange a vacation somewhere. It's called manipulation, even if your partner is not fully aware of that. Sometimes, you even do it without being conscious of it... it is a natural thing, an instinct. You know your partner is weak when being aroused (just like wild animals) so you take advantage of that.
I think it's wrong to use sex with the purpose of manipulating someone... as long as you say you respect your partner. If you don't, then I have no problem with it. :cool:
What do you think about manipulation through sex?