povidiu
04-02-2010, 11:56 AM
Human relation experts agree that flirting can drift over into harassment by:
1. Coming on too strong
2. Paying insincere compliments
3. Getting too personal by making sexual comments
Mark Stevens, PhD, a psychology professor at the University of Southern California, often leads workshops for men on how to express interest in a woman without appearing overly aggressive or harassing.
"Too often, guys adopt an approach that angers or humiliates women," Dr. Stevens says. "One of the most popular myths is that women usually say 'no' several times before they say 'yes.' Men in our culture have been taught that a feminine 'no' is really a 'maybe' and, that with a little effort, the 'maybe' will turn into a 'yes.'"
1. Coming on too strong
2. Paying insincere compliments
3. Getting too personal by making sexual comments
Mark Stevens, PhD, a psychology professor at the University of Southern California, often leads workshops for men on how to express interest in a woman without appearing overly aggressive or harassing.
"Too often, guys adopt an approach that angers or humiliates women," Dr. Stevens says. "One of the most popular myths is that women usually say 'no' several times before they say 'yes.' Men in our culture have been taught that a feminine 'no' is really a 'maybe' and, that with a little effort, the 'maybe' will turn into a 'yes.'"