povidiu
11-16-2009, 04:57 PM
The word "difference" we send by itself the idea of obstacle. Like any other difference that may arise between two parts of a couple, it can be an obstacle or on the contrary, a point now, stronger. When it becomes obvious age difference and how can it be mitigated?
Different views
Different generations often have different views. There could be common interests, or other long-term objectives. This type of conflict can occur in seemingly minor things, which is in the lifestyle. For example, if the youngest partner like night clubs, non-stop fun and a lot more noise, the other may seek quiet places. Hence, low voltage may occur, not communicated in time, can lead to more serious problems.
Important is that everyone knows what the other wants and not try to get just what he wants. In other words, such a torque can rotate a night club with entertainment less noisy, each understanding that it draws on his partner in that context and looking for ways to have fun together. In this way, an apparent problem of taste can turn into a binder of the relationship.
Inferiority complexes appear
Elderly person feels complex physical causes of the changes that took place and who can not cope with totally. Overflowing energy, innocence and joy of life that feels it can attract a partner, but also inhibits the same time. On the other hand, younger partner may feel complex inner balance that partner arrived, the power of its social or material. These complexes can be born more questions and conflicts between the two comunciare.
The important thing is for everyone to learn to say what he feels rather than what the other thinks that feels. In this way, on the one hand, strengthens the relationship, knowing it better each other, on the other hand, each more complex and explains his address them constructively. And everybody has to win.
Social pressure can i remove
Many of their preconceptions about the criteria that lead such a couple together. When one or both partners are vulnerable to jokes, discrimination or preconceptions of others, this can sit like a shadow in the relationship. The simplest is to remove things that both the surface and to provide sufficient time for others to understand that they are a stable couple.
Beyond the age difference and all other differences, a couple is a couple. Perhaps each has found there what they want: confidence, beauty, affection, power, communication. Or anything else that may be important. If you do not lose sight of this, partners can use their weaknesses to benefit the relationship, making it more stable and stronger.
Different views
Different generations often have different views. There could be common interests, or other long-term objectives. This type of conflict can occur in seemingly minor things, which is in the lifestyle. For example, if the youngest partner like night clubs, non-stop fun and a lot more noise, the other may seek quiet places. Hence, low voltage may occur, not communicated in time, can lead to more serious problems.
Important is that everyone knows what the other wants and not try to get just what he wants. In other words, such a torque can rotate a night club with entertainment less noisy, each understanding that it draws on his partner in that context and looking for ways to have fun together. In this way, an apparent problem of taste can turn into a binder of the relationship.
Inferiority complexes appear
Elderly person feels complex physical causes of the changes that took place and who can not cope with totally. Overflowing energy, innocence and joy of life that feels it can attract a partner, but also inhibits the same time. On the other hand, younger partner may feel complex inner balance that partner arrived, the power of its social or material. These complexes can be born more questions and conflicts between the two comunciare.
The important thing is for everyone to learn to say what he feels rather than what the other thinks that feels. In this way, on the one hand, strengthens the relationship, knowing it better each other, on the other hand, each more complex and explains his address them constructively. And everybody has to win.
Social pressure can i remove
Many of their preconceptions about the criteria that lead such a couple together. When one or both partners are vulnerable to jokes, discrimination or preconceptions of others, this can sit like a shadow in the relationship. The simplest is to remove things that both the surface and to provide sufficient time for others to understand that they are a stable couple.
Beyond the age difference and all other differences, a couple is a couple. Perhaps each has found there what they want: confidence, beauty, affection, power, communication. Or anything else that may be important. If you do not lose sight of this, partners can use their weaknesses to benefit the relationship, making it more stable and stronger.